For You, Sis
I want to start by sharing a piece of writing from Victoria and it goes like this:
"if memories were like balloons
destined to drift away --
Would you hold onto them tighter?
because you knew they wouldn't stay?"
Victoria was wise beyond her years.
And I believe that she valued moments more than any of us.
I want to share with you all a few quotes and sayings that Victoria loved & tried her best to live by:
“A great attitude becomes a great day which becomes a great month which becomes a great year which becomes a great life, so start the day with a great attitude”
“Smiles, happiness, and appreciation are all free and contagious”
“People are meant to be forgiven”
“Any act of kindness, no matter how small is never wasted”
“When you are grateful, you will be able to do great and wondrous things, not only for yourself but for the world”
“Everything you do affects someone. Your words hold weight, even when you say it with no value, the people you love are listening. And it is only their ears that matter. Give credit to the people who shaped you and don’t hold back on praise. Because when your actions and words of love never show, no one knows if the love is real or even there.”
And here are some words that she took note of from mom and dad:
“You cannot be afraid to fail. You try your best. If you fall, then get back up. Learn and grow, but don’t be afraid to try because you’re afraid of failing. Be brave and try and learn and grow.”
-mom
& Another...
“Everything in life is either two things; a blessing or a lesson.”
-mom
There are so many quotes that she had from dad but there's one that stood out the most:
“When you feel weak, find strength in those who are here for you”
-dad
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I miss you sis. I wish you were here so I could give you a great big hug and tell you how much you mean to me- to all of us. I wish I could tell you how beautiful you are, inside and out. Remind you of how smart and brilliant you are and how you have such a bright future ahead of you.
I wanted to take you to travel the world. I wanted to be there for you, seeing your greatest achievements and the small ones. I wanna hear you play one more song. I wish I could have one last hug. The kind where I squeeze you so tight, I lift you off the floor and almost crack your back (which I know you hate sorry).
I keep picturing you, pulling up in your black jeep, with your sunglasses on, windows down and music blasting.
Or getting some shut eye somewhere on some couch.
Or dancing to your vinyl records in your bedroom or cooking up something delicious in the kitchen.
I miss you so much. Every single moment of each day.
Your company, your laughter, the small talk, the deep talks. I want to hear more about your future plans: where you want to travel to, what you want to accomplish. You always had a plan for everything and we all knew that you would be the one do it.
Victoria was born for greatness and it was greatness she sought. She aimed for perfection in anything she did. She was brilliant. And kind and sweet and considerate. Always thinking about everyone.
There is so much that I'll always remember about Victoria but especially:
Her great big smile, that went from ear to ear.
Her laugh.
Her long beautiful hair.
Her witty jokes.
How goofy she was.
Her cooking, especially her baking.
The way she played piano. She was always learning and mastering new songs.
Her creative mind.
Her thoughtfulness.
Her patience, her love, her positivity.
Victoria was such a huge part of our lives & that's why it hurts so much.
I cry when I remember the good times that we had because I know that I'll never get those moments back. I'll never see her walking through the door again. I'll never see her perfect face or hear her voice again... Only in dreams or in memories.
But I am so grateful that I had the chance to make so many lasting memories with my sister. And although her time on earth with us was short, she sure did more in her 18 years of life than most people do in a lifetime.
She will live on...
Until we meet again sis.
I love you, forever.
Victoria's Quotes
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“If you gotta do it anyways, do it with a smile”
-dad
“Stop giving a fuck about what everyone else thinks and just be happy”
-o.o
“In order to be successful you need to be discipline and consistent.”
-Denzel Washington
“Don’t confuse movement with progress”
-D.W
“Don’t be afraid to start over again. This time, you’re not starting from scratch, you’re starting from experience.”
“Anger is a punishment to yourself”
-Ahkong
I am grateful for my life, my family, and my job.
I am not hungry, because someone out there is starving barely surviving. I choose to not eat so I can compete to achieve my dreams. I am not sore because someone out there is getting abused and has no control over their situation. I am not tired, because someone out there is on thee streets fighting to survive. Just to put my life into perspective. Be grateful.
“Everybody is a genius, but if you judge a fish by it’s ability to climb a tree it will believe it is stupid it’s whole life.”
-Albert Einstein
“Don’t create something you can’t take care of with your own two hands”
-dad
“Speak in such a way that others love to listen to you, Listen in such a way that others love to speak to you”
-
“I woke up. I have clothes to wear. I have running water. I have food to eat. Life is great and I am thankful”
-
“If someone corrects you, and you feel offended, then you have an ego problem”
-Mathew Mcconaughey
“The grass isn’t greener on the other side, it’s greener where you water it”
-dad
“Success is when hard work meets opportunity”
-dad
“Those who matter don’t care, and those who care don’t matter”
-dr seuss
“Find what you love to do and you’ll never work a day in your life”
-dad
“Stay strong, make them wonder how you’re still smiling”
-
“We don’t make mistakes, we make happy accidents”
-Bob Ross
“Take it day by day, don’t stress too much about tomorrow”
-
“Travel and tell no one, live a true story and tell no one, live happily and tell no one, people ruin beautiful things.”
-Khalil Gibran
“Treat the janitor with the same respect as the ceo”
-Tom hardy
“When you are struggling with money, be grateful you don’t struggle with your health, relationship, food”
-dad
“Spoiled is an attitude, if you have the right one then you’re privileged”
-dad
“Sometimes you never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory”
-
“In life expect to do everything on your own”
-dad
“When people step out, you need to step up”
-mama
“Never reply when you’re angry, never make a promise when you’re happy, and never make a decision when you’re sad”
-
“Learn how to see, realize that everything connects to everything else”
-Leonardo da Vinci
“Find 3 hobbies: one to make you money, one to keep you in shape, and one to keep you creative”
-
“A great attitude becomes a great day which becomes a great month which becomes a great year which becomes a great life, so start the day with a great attitude”
-
“Everyone is bound to make mistakes, you just have to be sure to fix it”
-dad
“The greatest pressure creates the greatest result, just look how diamonds are made”
-dad
“Save the intensity for training and the burn for the fight”
-dad
“Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your values and keep your values positive because your values become your destiny”
-ghandi
“Be more considerate of the feelings of the ones who count”
-dad
“Let them worry about you, the pressures on them, you just do what you do and have fun”
-dad
“A goal without a plan is like a nice car without an engine, it may look nice buts it won’t go anywhere”
-
“Run your own race”
-dad
“Work harder than anyone can ever ask of you”
-dad
“Your word is your bond”
-dad
“Opinions don’t define your reality”
-
“You fail only if you quit”
-
“Overthinking will only lead to sadness”
-
“Smiles, happiness, and appreciation are all free and contagious”
-
“All dogs think they’re alphas, until they meet a wolf”
-
GRATITUDE
“Survival, security, success, significance”
-entrepreneur
“Don’t feel bad for doing the right thing”
-mama
“Are you gonna work harder when you’re hungry or full?”
-dad
“Your desire to win must be greater than any of your irritations”
-dad
“Work hard in silence and do good things”
-dad
“Success is what you do with your mind”
-mama
“You are going to get what you work for in life by yourself, no gifts no favorites”
-dad
“Don’t get too comfortable in the norm, you have to challenge yourself to want more”
-dad
“It’s okay to be a glow stick, sometimes you need to break before you can shine”
-
“If you want to change things in a big way, you need to make some big changes”
-rocky
“Be nice to everyone, you never know one day they might skip you”
-Vera
“First in, last out.”
-dad
“Make the most out of what you have and live life to the fullest”
-Aunty Diane
“You’re gonna hurt whether you win or lose, so might as make it count”
-Ahia
“Own your mistakes so you can own the solutions”
-mama
“Everyone is going through something”
-dad
“Training is making your shovel stronger, it’s meant to break and get stronger so when it’s game time you can dig deeper and deeper”
- : o
“If you don’t know what to do with yourself do something for someone else”
-
“Positive people can have negative thoughts, they just don’t let those thoughts grow and destroy them. They overcome them”
-
“Life is a collection of moments”
-dad
“All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them”
-Walt Disney
“A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new”
-Einstein
POSITIVITY
“Don’t hold in bitterness it only hurts yourself, focus on your future”
-dad
“ Force creates resistance but relationships allow influence”
-
“A flower doesn’t think of competing with the flower next to it, it just blooms”
-
GOOD AS GOLD
“Do what makes you happy and be a good person”
-rose namajunas
“People are meant to be forgiven”
-o.o
“Keep calm and don’t take it personal because tomorrow will be a better day”
-dad
“Any act of kindness, no matter how small is never wasted”
-
“When you’re feeling low and hopeless just remember that it will only get better”
- :o
“When you feel weak, find strength in those who are here for you”
-dad
“If you’re persistent you will get it, if you’re consistent you will keep it”
-
“Go to your breaking point and beyond”
-
“You cannot use school as an excuse not to excel at something that’s your passion because if it was truly your passion nothing would stop you from giving 110% no matter what”
-:o
“Never believe the worst in people, unless your alone walking down a dark road then believe the worst in them”
-mama
CONFIDENCE
“Fake it till you make it”
-
“It ain’t about how hard you hit, it’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward”
-Rocky Balboa
“If people were rain, I was a drizzle and you were a hurricane”
-looking for alaska
“Pressure is what builds up in the chamber behind a bullet before it explodes out of the gun”
-Ronda Rousey
“If you can’t explain it to a six year old, you don’t know it yourself”
-dad
“Hustle like you have no friends and grind like nobody had you back”
-
“Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people”
-Eleanor Roosevelt
“If you give up on your dreams, what’s left?”
-
“Reality is created by the mind. We can change our reality by changing our mind”
-Plato
“A seed grows with no sound, but a tree falls with huge noise. Destruction has noise, but creation is quiet. Grow silently...”
-Confucius
“Train harder than ever”
-dad
“In life you’re always going to have to fight”
-dad
“Be stubborn in vision and flexible on details”
-jeff bezos
“Life isn’t about complaining about the things that go wrong, it’s about being grateful for all the things that go right”
“If they want a fight, it’s your obligation to bring a war”
-?
“It’s only a loss if you don’t learn”
“Don’t let anyone tell you how you should feel about your opponent”
“Failure is success if you learn from it”
“Take a deep breath and remember who the fu** you are”
“The world is a jungle, you either fight for what you want or get eaten by those who want it more"
“Be Alexa with a personality: listen, process, speak”
“Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That’s why they call it the present”
-master oogui
“5am. The hour legends either go to sleep or wake up”
“Life is like a snow globe, often it shows its best version after it’s been shaken up or flipped completely upside down.
“My parents worked too hard for me not be great”
“Don’t cry, no one cares. Start smiling, and everyone will get jealous”
“Everybody has the same 24 hrs in a day, how will you utilize it?”
-mama
“You have to train your mind to be stronger then your feelings or else you gone lose yourself”
-Mike Tyson
“He works too hard to be denied”
-dad
“When you are grateful, you will be able to do great and wondrous things, not only for yourself but for the world”
“Winning is a habit”
-dad
“You will never ALWAYS be motivated, thats why you have to be DISCIPLINED”
“When god blesses you financially, don’t raise your standard of living. Raise your standard of giving.”
“Everything you do affects someone. Your words hold weight, even when you say it with no value, the people you love are listening. And it is only their ears that matter. Give credit to the people who shaped you and don’t hold back on praise. Because when your actions and words of love never show, no one knows if the love is real or even there.”
-:o
“Anytime you feel you’ve done enough, there’s someone out there working harder”
-dad
“The pain never goes away, you just have to deal with it better”
-
“Hired for attitude, trained for skill”
-
“Tomorrow will be a better day”
-dad
“Doubt and negativity is a disease that must be addressed before it takes over your life and becomes untreatable”
-dad
“Everyday can be a great day”
-dad
“You have to constantly break yourself so you can rebuild yourself”
-ahia
“Success is for you, significance is for others
-
“Discipline is doin what you hate to do. But do it like you live it.”
-mike Tyson
“We are so much more capable than we allow ourselves to think”
-dad
“You can’t stop. You can go as slow as you need to but just don’t stop, because slow progress is still progress.”
-
“You cannot be afraid to fail. You try your best. If you fall, then get back up. Learn and grow, but don’t be afraid to try because you’re afraid of failing. Be brave and try and learn and grow.”
-mom
“What do you hate more, running or running out of cardio in a fight.”
-dad
“Being tired is all in your head. You are not tired”
-Lebron James
“Everything in life is either two things; a blessing or a lesson.”
-mom
“The top of one mountain is the bottom of the next, so keep climbing”
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“wish you could hear the way I talk about you”
“If you have had a friend for over 7 years you’re no longer friends, you’re family”
TRUST
LOYALTY
“Don’t make lasting decisions on temporary feelings”
“You’re the best thing I never knew I needed”
“If you don’t sacrifice for what you want, what you want becomes the sacrifice”
“Your person is your Your Person, and that is undeniable”
“Love is patient. Love is kind. Love is not jealous. Love does not envy.”
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If angry, take a silent walk together
COMMUNICATION. KINDNESS. TRUST.