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Portrait of Robert Emmett and Delone Wilson Cates
In loving memory

Robert Emmett and Delone Wilson Cates

October 19, 1926 – May 7, 2019
Lived 92 years
West Jordan, Utah
Life story

Robert Emmett Cates, aged 92 passed away on May 7, 2019 at his home in West Jordan, Utah. Robert was born October 19th 1926 in Portland, OR to Richard Albert and Mary Sophrona Cates. He married DeLone Wilson on December 15th, 1949 in Brigham City, UT.

He is survived by his wife, DeLone; his children Terry Watters, Gregory Cates (Kris), Debra Quick (Byron), and Anthony Cates; Grandchildren Justin Watters (Kara), Brandon Watters (Jaime), Kerianne Watters, Cristie Watters, Danielle Clemons, Geoffrey Cates (Andrea), Christopher Quick (Michelle), Jennifer Quick (David), Michael Quick. And many great grandchildren.

The following was written by Bob some years ago:

"When I was a child I did a lot of work around our yard and in the house - yes, I did housework, like washing dishes, making beds, etc. I mowed the lawn, pulled weeds and did other similar yardwork. There was only my brother, Bill, and me to help my mother, so we had a lot to do. We managed to get in some play time too. When I was about 8 years old I worked for my uncles hauling hay, hoeing beets and other farmwork. When I was about 12, I started working for other farmers: picking beans, cherries, tomatoes, peaches, apples, etc.

The first place I moved when I first left home was into the U.S. Navy, where I spent about 2 1/2 years.

My friends were many, but here are a few I can remember: Gordon Holmgren, Douglas Christiansen, Frank Taylor, Shirl Gardner, Verl Iverson, Palmer Iverson, Lee Johnsen, Stan Reese, Dwight Anderson, Frank Anderson, Max Holland, Martell Mortenson, Etc. And now, the girls: Donna Barker, Arley Mateson, LaPreal Dallin, Sally Ramsdell, Arletta Checketts, Betty Holland, Varda Hansen, Rayola Andreason, etc.

I guess my favorite relative was my Uncle Ben. I guess I liked him so much because he was sort of a father to me. He was a man's man and yet he could be very gentle for such a big powerful person. He was always very good to me and my brother.

My favorite hobby (in fact the only hobby I can remember) was making model airplanes from balsa wood, tissue paper and glue. They were powered by rubber bands attached to the propeller and they would actually fly! (most of the time).

I went to Bear River City Elementary School up to and including the 8th grade. From there, I went to Box Elder High School for 3 years, joining the U.S. Navy at the start of my senior year. I had to complete high school through special testing after I got out of the Navy.

DeLone and I met at a basketball game (church "M" mens basketball) in which I was a participant. It was in the middle of winter (January 1949) and we were introduced and I took her home. We started dating and were married about a year later (15 Dec 1949) in her Uncle Bob's home in Brigham City."

This is where his first-hand account ends.

In the years that followed, they were blessed with four children; Terry in 1950, Greg in 1952, Debbie in 1956, and Tony in 1957.

At the time of their marriage, Bob was attending Utah State University when he was offered a position with Northrop in California for the defense industry. From 1955 to 1961 the family moved often while working in the defense industry, returning to Utah in 1961 to work for Thiokol.

A large layoff at Thiokol left him with no job, so he returned to Utah State University to complete his degree in political science, graduating in 1966.

After graduation, Bob went to work for Ogden City, and was involved in special studies that led to the Ogden Redevelopment Agency.

In 1969, he started work for the Salt Lake County Planning Commission where he contributed to the conditional use and zoning processes in the 1970's. He supervised the zoning enforcement and zoning information systems for 20 years until his retirement in 1987.

Following his retirement, he started doing what he really wanted to do and became a travel agent, helping people live their travel dreams.

The family moved to Salt Lake City in 1971 and has lived in the valley to this day.

He was preceded in death by his mother and his father, and his only brother, Bill.

In lieu of flowers please make donations to the Utah Humane Society.

Services will be held Friday, May 10 at Camp Williams Cemetery - 17111 South Camp Williams Road in Bluffdale at 1:00 PM.

DeLone’s Obituary

In Loving Memory

West Jordan, Utah-DeLone Wilson Cates returned to her Heavenly Father on Wednesday, August 31st, 2022 surrounded by her family.

DeLone was born on June 6th, 1931 in Brigham City, Utah to LaMoine Elias and Mary Jensen Wilson.

She was raised in Brigham. She graduated from Box Elder High School in 1949, and married Bob Cates later that same year.

She met Bob one night while he was playing basketball. The first time she saw him, she told her friends, "I'm going to marry him". He said the first time he saw her, he fell in love with her. "She was such a sweet person, and I couldn't have asked for a better wife".

She was a hard worker and worked lots of jobs. She was an usher at the Roxy Theater on Main Street and she worked at the cannery. After her marriage, she continued working hard and raising her family. She worked for Mayfair, later Smith's, with Founder Dee Smith. Later she worked for First Security Bank and the Utah State Insurance Department.

Bob and "DD", as he called her, had four children. Terry Lyn (Watters), Gregory Allen, Debra Anne (Quick), and Anthony Bryon. They have 10 grandchildren and 23 great-grandchildren.

They LOVED to travel, mostly by car. Some of their favorite road-trips took them to Yellowstone and Yosemite National Parks as well as Oregon and Wyoming.

DeLone is survived by her sister, LuJuanna and brother, Ronald Kent (Kenny), her 4 children, and many grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces, and nephews.

She was preceded in passing by her Sweetheart of 70 years, Robert Emmett Cates, her younger brother, Duane LaMoine Wilson.

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1926
Born October 19
1928
Robert was 2 when Mickey Mouse debuted in "Steamboat Willie"
1935
Robert was 9 when Parker Brothers released Monopoly
1944
Robert was 18 when Allied troops landed at Normandy on D-Day
1959
Robert was 33 when Barbie made her debut
1963
Robert was 37 when Martin Luther King Jr. gave his "I Have a Dream" speech
1974
Robert was 48 when Richard Nixon resigned the presidency
1989
Robert was 63 when "The Simpsons" debuted as a series
1991
Robert was 65 when the Soviet Union dissolved
2005
Robert was 79 when the first video was posted to YouTube
2017
Robert was 91 when "Fortnite" became a video game phenomenon
2019
Passed away May 7, age 92
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