Missing you
I have so many memories of Terry and know matter what he went through as a child and as an adult he always had a smile on his face. I miss you more than words can say. We know that you're in Heaven watching us and thinking, damn they are still crazy. I know that you're dancing with Chase.
Kathryn-Katy Tidwell
29w
My ride or die
I met Terry in the summer of 2011. My only son Chase was about 8mths old. We talked, hung out, I cut his hair, got to know each other, and tbh it made it easier because he was my best friend Rachaels roommate. He eventually took me on a date, opened my driver door and I said wtf are you doing you're not driving my damn truck!? He said Katy im opening your door. I said oh well I have a key clicker not a key and im trying to use the key so I think you should drive. We laughed, he got in the driver's seat and I thanked him for opening the door for me and said sorry i was rude I had never had a man open my door like that. Terry and I became inseparable for the next 10yrs. Our saying was, it didn't matter what we did, he or I would ask, die together? Yep! die together? Yep! We didn't want to leave the other one behind. We went on to have 2 more beautiful kiddos Airon Memphis and Korbin Joel. Yes Airons is name sake is after Elvis, because I just couldn't let him name my baby Elvis🤣 i remember each child you were so happy as soon as you caught or held them. When airon was born, it hit around 3am, i called momma and said idk but im gonna try to go back to sleep cause im really tired. I called back at 6am, come get me now, its time! I then called Mr. DADDY and said it's time, you were 2 hrs away on a job. You hauled ass back, gave the company truck to one of your guys and ran into the room as soon as he came out just in time for you to cut the cord. You stayed and helped as best as you could next to my momma. Then black Abby died, Chase's dog. So we got a white puppy and Chase named her white Abby, he was 5. Our new family dog. Then along came curly sure Korbin, I remember we were struggling a lot in our relationship during that time due to finances, we had to move and I was 6mths pregnant, so hardly no help. Korbin came in the middle of the night, and i thought I was in hard labor. It was the beginning. I did 7hrs natural because they wouldn't break my water
You were trying so hard, with the cold rags, constantly emptying my bucket, but it was TOO much. I remember sitting up in bed during a contraction, you're fanning me, mom walks in from getting coffee and i gripped the bed and yelled if you dont get the hell outta here and let my momma handle it imma have them put you in the ER. My mom looked at him he looked at me, said imma go get some lunch. Then about an hr later of arguing with the Dr. I asked for an epidural, they broke my water, he was born in literally 14min. Funny when doctors don't actually listen to there patients. Terry you lit up to babies just like i do, especially our own. Because they are innocent, purely innocent and nothing has tanted their soul. We rocked along a little, getting our finances better, rented a house, then finally bought a house. Then it all went down hill. We split for a little while, then got back together. Tried it, realized we are really good friends and would die and kill for each other. But our passion when we loved, was just as fiery when we fought. Terry I loved you and was in love with you up until the day you died. And with the voice texts, "late night visits', I knew you loved me still too. We miss you so much down here, and there are days I am SO angry at you for being in that situation to be murdered because I thought we were supposed to die together. That was our pact, our promise! How could you leave me like that? How could you leave me with all of this to do by myself? BUT I look at our babies and then know why. They still needed me, and I needed to see them grow too. Terry there beautiful! They've grown so much, omg you'd be so proud. You raised Chase like your own, went from T to Tdaddy to daddy. He didn't make it, just like you. Murdered. You and his memaw BETTER have greeted that baby when he got there. I know yall are cutting some rugs and singing in that beautiful choir.
Airon and Korbin miss you so much. Korbin was little, so hes starting to forget but I show him videos and pics and we celebrate you. We will always celebrate you, and I will always make sure our babies never forget. We love you... Katy
- your Bonnie.