Sheila was a woman whose light, love, and laughter filled the lives of everyone fortunate enough to know her. Sheila was funny, adventurous, loving, and always ready to help others.
Sheila had a deep passion for music. Bluegrass was her favorite genre, not just for the sound, but for the sense of family it represented — a family that became even more precious when cancer entered her life. When that difficult chapter began, our bluegrass family rallied around us with incredible love and support. And from Sheila’s generous heart came the idea for Orange Army Bluegrass, the nonprofit we formed together so we could pay that kindness forward. Even while courageously fighting cancer, Sheila’s focus remained on helping others. We will continue this mission, carrying Sheila’s legacy forward with dignity, open arms, and unwavering support for all who join us.
Sheila’s greatest joy was in being with her family, especially spending time with her grandchildren — “her babies,” as she lovingly called them. She cherished every moment with them. Sheila also loved the thrill of riding motorcycles and side-by-sides, entertaining friends and family, and creating a warm, welcoming home where everyone felt loved.
At the heart of all Sheila did was her faith. She drew strength from her daily Bible reading, and she lived by the words of Matthew 25:34-40 — always looking for ways to serve, to love, and to lift others up. That faith guided her through the hardest times, and it continues to inspire us today.
Though we grieve deeply, we also celebrate Sheila’s remarkable life — a life filled with laughter, kindness, courage, and love. Let us honor her by following her example: by living with open hearts, helping others, and cherishing the time we have with those we love.
Sheila is survived by her loving husband of 18 years, Robert “Sleepy” Porter; three sons, David (Felicia) Brown of Morehead, Kentucky, Austin (Lexy) Porter, Christopher (Hannah) Brown all of Olive Hill, Kentucky; five grandchildren, Gabriel, Jonah, Lukas, Amelia, Oakleigh; one brother, Greg (Sandy) Hillman of Lawton, Kentucky; two sisters, Anna (Mike) O’Connor of Lawton, Kentucky,Tammie Porter of Olive Hill, Kentucky; father and mother-in-law, Roy Dee and Loretta Thompson Porter; two nephews, Michael Hillman, Trinton Carroll; two nieces, Brenna O’Connor and Hailie Hamilton, along with many other family and friends who will sadly miss her.
There will never be a day go by that you don't cross my mind. I made you a promise, and I will keep that promise. I will be here for your boys and Sleepy anytime they need me. I will keep your legacy of the Orange Army alive. I love you big She She. You truly were one of a kind. Love, Maryann Stevens