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Portrait of Jill Marie Miller
In loving memory

Jill Marie Miller

June 11, 1982 – March 20, 2022
Lived 39 years
Browns Cemetery · Oppenheim, New York
Life story

Our beloved Jill Marie Miller, 39, of Dolgeville, New York and a life-long Oppenheim, New York resident, passed away unexpectedly early Sunday morning, March 20, 2022 at Little Falls Hospital. At the time of her passing, she had the love and comfort of her parents, siblings and close friends by her side.

She was born on June 11, 1982 in Little Falls, New York and the daughter of Laurie and George Stanley and Leo Miller (Sally). She was born the fifth of six children. Jill was educated at Oppenheim-Ephratah Central School and graduated with the Class of 2000.

Jill was previously employed as a healthcare giver at Lexington Center in the local area and lastly at Brookside in Ephratah, New York.

When Jill walked into a room, her smile and infectious laugh was all it took to brighten everyone’s day. She was a friend to everyone she would meet, even with all of the hospital stays. Jill was so much like her grandfather, Spike, where she would talk to everyone, was a friend forever and would do anything for anyone.

Jill will be fondly remembered by her family and friends, as a spunky, fun and carefree person who never gave up on her fight for her life. She loved deeply and in return was loved by all who knew her. Her family, friends, and community will feel the loss of such a wonderful person for years to come. A loving daughter, granddaughter, sister, aunt and friend, she will be dearly missed forever.

She is survived by her beloved parents, Laurie and George Stanley, and Leo Miller (Sally); loving maternal grandmother, Alice Silvernail, her siblings, Carrie Urdang (Jason), Chad Miller, Brian Miller (Brenda), Timothy Miller (Stephanie), Molly Miller (Richard), Aaron Stanley, and Dustin Stanley (Samantha); special sisters, Wendy Shaut Miller, Lyndsey Lowell Miller, Meegan Daukontas-Goodman and Olivia Tabor; cherished nieces and nephews, Sonja (Justin), Brianna Jo, Leaha, Kayleigh, Tyler, Hunter (Kiara), Blaine, Jarred, Cooper, Laura-Lynn, Isabella, Rori and Elaina; her one and only fur-baby, Skippy; and special long time friend, Sergio Arbustini; and many aunts, uncles, cousins, extended family and friends who were family.

She was predeceased by her maternal grandfather, Carl “Spike” Silvernail and her paternal grandparents, Albert and Jennie Miller.

Calling hours will be held on Thursday, March 24, 2022 from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. at Miller-Plonka Funeral Home, 30 Wolf Street, Dolgeville, New York. A funeral service will be held on Friday, March 25, 2022 at 11 a.m. also at Miller-Plonka Funeral Home with Rev. Dr. R.W. Williams, Pastor officiating. Interment will immediately follow the funeral service at Brown Cemetery in Oppenheim, New York where she will be laid to rest. After the interment service, family and friends are invited to gather at the Oppenheim Senior Center on Tobacco Road in Oppenheim. Those wishing to contribute food for the Celebration of Life, please contact Alma Getman at 518-568-7039 or Heather Whittmann at 315-360-4578

In lieu of floral offerings, please consider monetary donations to be used in honor of Jill toward the cost of funeral arrangements c/o Laurel Stanley, 6809 State Highway 29, St. Johnsville, New York 13452.

The family would like to thank the staff of MOVAC and the doctors, nurses and staff of Little Falls Hospital- E.D. and all of the family, friends and acquaintances of Jill for their care, compassion and support during this difficult time.

A saying that Jill always said was, “Stick with me and we’ll go places!” Jill, we hope you are free from pain and suffering, that you are flying high and finally have peace and comfort. Until we all meet again, we love you!

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1982
Born June 11
1989
Jill was 7 when the Berlin Wall fell
1997
Jill was 15 when "Titanic" opened in theaters
1998
Jill was 16 when Google was founded
2004
Jill was 22 when Facebook was launched
2005
Jill was 23 when the first video was posted to YouTube
2022
Passed away March 20, age 39
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Molly Miller 149w

My loving Sister

My sister was more than just a sibling she was my best friend! The source of comfort and joy she brought to me will never be forgotten. The bond we had was like no other. All of our lives we were called twins and people would confuse our names. Boy I miss hearing that. My greatest memory with you was the night we all tried out for "the voice!" You sang your heart out and the love you had for music. It's a shame Blake never called us! Those were the nights. Till we meet again sister remember I love you dearly and miss you so damn much! Love Always, Molly Ann ❤️

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Alma GetmanOh gosh... Where does one begin...... Jill, I've known you since elementary school at OE. When you walked into a room you lit it up with your smile. You were one crazy, loving dear friend and the life of any party. You my dear made it happen when you were around. If someone dared you they ate those words. You are an amazing woman.. I miss our chats just about every day. I wish we could turn the clock back and have you here we all sure do love & miss you beyond words. Love ya to the moon and back everyday..
Chad Miller 149w

My Loving Sister

Let’s see where to start ,,, let’s start with the snowmobile incident, I’ll start it up for u Jill , come back bleeding . MOM “ chads bleeding bad” . From there go to brook side and then after I got out of work she would make me pizzas on Friday at brookside. She ALWAYS made sure I had something to eat … OH AND CANT FORGET HOW JILL DARED ME TO WEAR HER BRA OUT ON THE FRONT PORCH ,,, somewhere there are pictures of it !! lol I WILL ALWAYS LOVE AND MISS YOU JILL MARIE LOVE YOUR BIG BROTHER

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Rebecca DeNinno 149w

My Friend Jill

I will always remember Jill as one of the most honest people I ever met. She was always good to me. My kids will always remember her as Aunt Jill, as she was to many of her adopted nieces and nephews. Every now and then a memory comes to mind of the great times we had when we hung out. Whether it be at the Brookside or at Brian’s she always made me smile. I seem to remember signing her body with a black sharpie at the Brookside one time! That was not our best decision, but boy did we laugh! I am so glad that I have that memory. She touched so many hearts and will always be missed.

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Amy leskovarOh Jill, you always brought joy to any circumstance! I have so many memories of you. You were so good to my son!! We both love you!! You brought happiness wherever you went. Peace my young friend!! <3 Amy
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