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Portrait of Donald Wayne “Joseph Joseph” McNeil
Waiting for the rest of us

Donald Wayne “Joseph Joseph” McNeil

June 4, 1950 – August 6, 2023
Lived 73 years
Franklinville Cemetery · Spruce Creek, Pennsylvania
“When I hit the lottery…” “Don’t start no shit, won’t be no shit”
Life story

An obituary. It has to be one of the hardest things to ever write for someone. I mean how do you sum up someone's life in just a few short paragraphs? How do you unpack a life of 73 years of someone as significant as your father into only words? The answer is you can't. Now, my father was not a man of great importance to his community. He wasn't in a political role for the city or county he lived in. He wasn't in show business or had any sort of fame. But this seemingly unimportant man to the world was held to the highest of importance in our family. He was someone we called when we needed help. weather it was moving from one house to another, or a plumbing or electrical need, he was right there with an answer. He was looked to for guidance, direction, and decision making by most of his family. He was essentially the patriarch of our family. He was the glue that held our world together.

Our lives have changed since his passing with the realization; Life really does go on without him. The man who I thought could never die, did just that. Leaving a huge void in the lives of his family and the friends he left behind.

Christmas, Thanksgiving, and other holidays have lost some of their luster. Every year on our birthdays my mother and father would call to wish us a happy birthday. That silent whisper of a countdown of 1, 2, 3...Happy Birthday! was different the next year. No dad. No countdown. But the noticeable absence of his voice on the other end of the line.

He is missed. Greatly.

I will do my best to add stories on here as frequently as i can. Please feel free to do the same.

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The world Donald knew

Family milestones in gold, history for context

1950
Born June 4
1959
Donald was 9 when Barbie made her debut
1969
Donald was 19 when the Woodstock music festival opened
1971
Donald was 21 when Walt Disney World opened in Florida
1982
Donald was 32 when Michael Jackson released "Thriller"
1994
Donald was 44 when "Friends" premiered
2001
Donald was 51 when Apple introduced the iPod
2010
Donald was 60 when Apple's iPad went on sale
2022
Donald was 72 when ChatGPT was released to the public
2023
Passed away August 6, age 73
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