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Portrait of James "Jay" Albert and Helen Lorene Nelson Ralphs
In loving memory of

James "Jay" Albert and Helen Lorene Nelson Ralphs

June 23, 1912 – November 13, 2001
Lived 89 years
Rockland Valley View Cemetary · Rockland, Idaho
Jay's Family Search Site: https://www.familysearch.org/tree/person/details/KWCX-24G Helen's Family Search Site: https://www.familysearch.org/tree/person/details/KWCX-24P
Life story

James "Jay" Albert Ralphs III (06/23/1912 - 11/13/2001) and Helen Lorene (Nelson) Ralphs ( 09/01/1913 - 08/12/2004)

Jay was born June 23, 1912, in Brigham City, Utah, the oldest son of James Albert Ralphs Jr., and Charlotte Amelia Munns. While born in Brigham City, he spent his life in the beautiful Rockland Valley, which he loved. Helen was born Sept. 1, 1913 in Rockland, Idaho, the oldest child of Bert Albert Nelson and Polly May Perry.

They married on June 12, 1935, in the Logan Utah Temple, and were married 66 years before Jay's passing in November of 2001. They spent their life in Rockland, raising what Jay called their best crop ... their six children, Eldon Jay (Charmaine) Ralphs; Janice Mae (Robert) Freeman; Ilene (Carl) Haskell; DeeAnn (P. Ronald) Farr; Robert Lee (Nancy) Ralphs; and Dan Evan (Linda) Ralphs.

Both Jay and Helen were lifelong, active members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Jay served in the ward and stake Sunday school. As a Seventy he served as a stake missionary for the American Falls stake. At the time of his death he was a high priest living in the Rockland Ward. He loved going home teaching with the young men of the valley. Helen served in all the auxiliaries of the Church. In 1948, she wrote, "I have worked in the Primary since I was a Sophomore in high school. This has not been consistent service, although I have worked over 15 years in all the different classes... . ... I feel that it is a great privilege to be called to work with the children of our ward..."

Jay and Helen lived on a farm in Rockland raising turkeys, grain and alfalfa hay, and milking cows. When they retired, they moved into town, but Jay still loved driving to the farm each day helping with the irrigating and feeding the animals as long as his health permitted. Jay also served on the school board for several years.

Helen was a dedicated correspondent for "The Power County Press" for 32 years, keeping Rockland's happenings in the news.

She gave much sweet service to the community, church and especially to her family. Many pots of homemade chicken and noodles or new peas and potatoes, or beautiful flowers from her garden were enjoyed by families in the event of a new baby, sickness or death.

Jay passed away of natural causes at their home on 11/13/2001. Life just wasn't the same for Helen without her beloved companion, and she followed him to the eternities on 08/12/2004. At the time of Helen's passing they were survived by all 6 of their children and their spouses, 32 grand children, and 69 great grandchildren. They both left a legacy their posterity is proud to strive to carry forward.

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1912
Born June 23
1912
Jay's Birth
1913
Helen's Birth
1918
James was 6 when the Armistice ended World War I
1920
James was 8 when Prohibition began
1921
Helen's Baptism
1921
Helen's Confirmation
1935
Jay and Helen attend the temple for the first time, receive their endowments, and are sealed for time and all eternity.
1935
Jay and Helen are Married
1939
James was 27 when "Gone with the Wind" premiered in Atlanta
1945
James was 33 when World War II ended
1951
James was 39 when "I Love Lucy" debuted on CBS
1964
James was 52 when President Johnson signed the Civil Rights Act
1976
James was 64 when America celebrated its Bicentennial
1982
James was 70 when Michael Jackson released "Thriller"
1995
James was 83 when "Toy Story" became the first fully computer-animated film
2000
James was 88 when "Survivor" launched the reality TV boom
2001
Jay passed away
2001
Passed away November 13, age 89
2004
Helen passed away
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