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Portrait of Letty Bocateja Bautista
Honoring the life and love of

Letty Bocateja Bautista

November 25, 1950 – January 15, 2026
Lived 75 years
Catholic
Forest Lawn · Cypress, California
A mother’s love is the heart of the family
Life story

Leticia “Letty” Bautista was born in 1950 in Iloilo, Philippines, to Manuel Bocatija and Trinidad Eso Bocatija. She was raised alongside her two brothers, Manuel Jr. and Roland, in a devout Catholic household where faith, values, and love of family were deeply instilled. Her father served in the Philippine–U.S. Army during World War II and strongly valued education, ensuring that Letty received an excellent schooling through all-girls institutions made possible by his military service.

Letty earned a Bachelor of Science in Medical Technology from Philippine Women’s University. After graduation, she worked successfully as a medical technologist in the Philippine Air Force. Her career and independence allowed her to travel extensively, visiting countries such as Germany, Hong Kong, France, Italy, and the United States.

Driven by an entrepreneurial spirit, Letty later established her own business in Manila, opening boutiques specializing in luxury goods and haberdashery. Known for her impeccable style and eye for trends, she frequently traveled to California to source imported goods, which she shipped back to the Philippines. Fashion, jewelry, travel, and business brought her joy and fulfillment as a young entrepreneur.

In the Philippines, Letty met the love of her life, Gil Bautista. Together, they shared a life filled with travel, music, and cherished memories. After marrying, they made the decision to immigrate to the United States to build their family. They settled in Chicago, where Letty—ever faithful—hand-carried her cherished and miraculous Santo Niño, a symbol of her deep devotion.

Letty always dreamed of becoming a mother and prayed daily for a child. After experiencing pregnancy loss, she entrusted her prayers to the Santo Niño, whom she lovingly called “Nonoy.” Soon after, she became pregnant and gave birth to their beloved son, Gerard Gillet Bautista, in Chicago. Though advised by doctors that it was unsafe to have more children, Letty and Gil devoted their lives to raising their son with unwavering love, faith, and unity. They named him Gillet, a combination of their names, symbolizing their bond as one family. In 1984, the family moved to California to begin a new chapter together.

Letty was a woman of remarkable strength, determination, and grace. She worked for 15 years as a nurse at Kaiser Hospital while dedicating herself fully to her family. She ensured her son was raised in the Catholic faith and educated in Catholic schools, proudly attending every school event, fundraiser, and milestone. She made their home a place filled with love, tradition, and lasting memories.

Her entrepreneurial spirit continued in the United States, where she became affectionately known as “Tita Letty” to many. She loved to take care of people, making them feel welcome when they were

around her. Letty would show her love through the joy she brough into any space and cooking for anyone that came over to the house. She was truly everyone’s Tita. She decided to leave Kaiser and she opened and successfully operated a fine jewelry business in Riverside and West Covina for over 25 years, traveling to trade shows, selling wholesale, and welcoming customers daily. She found joy not only in her business, but in life—traveling with her family, hosting gatherings, cooking lovingly for others (she was an AMAZING cook), celebrating culture, and serving her parish through fundraising and leading Santo Niño prayers. Though she appreciated beautiful things, it was the simple moments, faith, and family that mattered most to her.

In 2019, Letty stepped away from her business as she began showing signs of cognitive decline. She was officially diagnosed with progressive Alzheimer’s dementia in 2020. Though the disease gradually took her words, her love, warmth, and presence never faded. She faced her illness with courage and dignity, supported faithfully by her husband and son.

In 2025, Letty entered the final stage of her illness and was lovingly cared for at home. She was blessed to celebrate her 75th birthday, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and the New Year surrounded by family. On January 15, 2026, while receiving in-home hospice care, Letty passed away peacefully and naturally at home, with her husband and son by her side.

She entered eternal rest on the Feast of the Santo Niño, a profound comfort to her family and a testament to a life rooted in faith. Leticia “Letty” Bautista leaves behind a legacy of love, devotion, perseverance, and grace—a life fully lived in service to God, family, and others.

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The world Letty knew

Family milestones in gold, history for context

1950
Born November 25
1950
Born in Iloilo, Philippines
1956
Letty was 6 when "In God We Trust" became the national motto
1958
Letty was 8 when the Hula Hoop craze swept the country
1962
Letty was 12 when the Second Vatican Council opened in Rome
1969
Letty was 19 when "Sesame Street" debuted
1977
Letty was 27 when Star Wars opened in theaters
1982
Letty was 32 when Michael Jackson released "Thriller"
1998
Letty was 48 when Google was founded
2001
Letty was 51 when Apple introduced the iPod
2010
Letty was 60 when Apple's iPad went on sale
2022
Letty was 72 when Queen Elizabeth II died after 70 years on the throne
2026
Passed away January 15, age 75
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“Hold On To Love”

Hold On To Love - Song and Lyric There is a place for the sadness Hold on to love There is a season of gladness Hold on to love When pain and confusion seem endless Hold on to love We cultivate healing through kindness Hold on to love Hold on to love where hope is found Hold on to love where joy abounds Hold on to love where grace and mercy's overflowing Hold on to love When terror and fear overwhelm us Hold on to love Courage and faith will sustain us Hold on to love When violence seeks to destroy us Hold on to love Acts of compassion restore us Hold on to love Hold on to love where hope is found Hold on to love where joy abounds Hold on to love where grace and mercy's overflowing Hold on to love Hold on When hatred is used to divide us Hold on to love Wisdom and truth reunite us Hold on to love When prejudice poses as freedom Hold on to love Dignity means all are welcome Hold on to love Hold on to love where hope is found Hold on to love where joy abounds Hold on to love where grace and mercy's overflowing Hold on to love where hope is found Hold on to love where joy abounds Hold on to love where grace and mercy's overflowing Hold on to love Hold on to love

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Gerard Bautista 24w

Words of remembrance

Words of Remembrance Good morning. On behalf of my dad and myself, thank you all for being here today—for your prayers, your presence, and the love you’ve shown our family during this time. It means more to us than we can ever express. Mom… It feels strange to be speaking to you when you’re no longer here with me in the way I’m used to. You were my constant, my safe place, my best friend. And today, before we lay you to rest, I want to talk to you one last time—and let everyone here know who you were to me, and who you were to Dad and me together. All my life, I could always come to you. I could talk to you about anything—big or small, serious or silly. You always listened. You always cared. Your journey in life was amazing, Mom—but not easy, especially in recent years. Dementia slowly changed many things, but it never took away who you were at your core: a loving mother, a devoted wife, and a woman whose heart was always centered on family. You are the strongest woman I know—independent, hardworking, and full of grace. Mom, there are four things you taught me—four values you lived every day—and they are the foundation of who I am: respect, compassion, love, and joy. You taught me respect by how you lived. You respected your faith, your parents, your marriage, and your work. From your early years in the Philippines, to building a life in America, you carried yourself with dignity and strength. You showed me that respect isn’t demanded—it’s earned through integrity, discipline, and humility. You taught me to honor where we came from and to always remember who we are. You taught me compassion through your care for others. Whether you were working as a nurse, running your business, or simply welcoming people into our home, you saw people deeply. Even when words became harder for you, your compassion never left. I saw it in your eyes, in your touch, in the way you held my hand. Dementia may have taken words, but it never took your heart. You taught me love—the kind that is constant and unconditional. You and Dad showed me what partnership looks like: standing together through joy, through loss, through uncertainty. Mom, you prayed so hard to become a mother, and I have never doubted for a single moment how deeply I was loved. Our family may have been small, but it was full—full of faith, devotion, and an unbreakable bond. And Mom, you taught me joy. You found joy in family, in faith, in cooking, in hosting, in celebrating culture, and yes—beautiful things. You loved fashion, jewelry, and travel, but the simplest moments brought you the most happiness. Even in the hardest days, joy would still find its way through you. Your presence alone made people feel welcomed and loved. Mom, being your son has been the greatest gift of my life. Walking with you through illness was not easy, but it was an honor. Loving you was never a burden—it was a blessing. And Dad and I will forever be grateful that we were with you until the very end, surrounding you with the same love you gave us your whole life. There’s one last thing I want to say to you. Mom and I are kind of a Filipino anomaly—we don’t really sing. Tone deaf even. But when we do sing… it’s to each other. When I was little, you used to sing me a lullaby. You sang it to make me feel safe. To make me feel loved. Years later, when dementia made the world confusing and unfamiliar, I sang it back to you—to remind you that you were safe, and that you were deeply loved. Before we lay you to rest, I want to sing it for you so that as you enter the gates of heaven, knowing how deeply loved you are. “you are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy when skies are grey. You’ll never know dear, how much I love you. Please don’t take my sunshine away.” Mom… Dad and I love you so much. Thank you for being our light, our strength, and our home. Please be our sunshine—always and forever.

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