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Portrait of Alexander James Van Pelt
In loving memory

Alexander James Van Pelt

November 17, 2005 – September 8, 2024
Lived 18 years
Danville Memorial Gardens · Danville, VA
A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. Proverbs 17:17
Life story

Being asked to describe Alex would require a novel of words and it still wouldn’t be enough to capture him truly, but love, compassion, camaraderie, courage, tenacity, and full authenticity are just some of the main attributes that have held true to his character from a young age. To know Alex is to know true love, both for him and from him; everyone who knows him has nothing but good memories with him. Bringing smiles and laughter to all those around - family, friends, and strangers, Alex has been a ray of light in everyone’s lives ever since he was a little boy. While being an extraordinary pitcher, Alex’s talents extended way past the baseball field and showed up in everything he did; from golfing to singing, dancing, and cooking - to simply always showing up to be the most genuine, honest, and inspiring person he could – and he never failed at that. Alex was always ready and willing to share the emotions with everyone around and in any situation – an attribute most reflected on the baseball field, continuously displaying pride and encouragement in himself and fellow teammates regardless of if they were met with victory or defeat. Alex never failed to show constant compassion and support for those around him, both on and off the field, on his “team” or not. Alex put his heart into everything he did – school, athletics, volunteering to help young athletes, or just being social with friends and family, not a thing was met with a mundane attitude.

Alex played a handful of sports growing up but founded a love for baseball by the age of 4. He always gave his all to grow and improve as a player, determined to fulfill his goals of playing division 1 in college, and eventually make it to the professional league. He started playing T-ball around 5 years old and continued to play with the Danville City Little League, the Virginia Reds, River City Redbirds, and the Dirtbags traveling up and down the East Coast. By sophomore year of high school, he became a part of Chatham High’s Varsity team, where he continued to improve his skills and knowledge as a player. In his senior year, he led his team in nearly every statistical category, accumulated 117 strike outs with a fastball running up to 94mph, was named District and Regional player of the year, was on the All-State team during the Spring 2024 season, and was ranked as the 46th baseball prospect from Virginia. After graduating from Chatham with Honors and as a Commonwealth Scholar, Alex spent his summer playing with the Sherrill Silversmiths (Sherrill, NY) of the NYCBL. The team was comprised of D1-D3 players, aged 18-23, with Alex being one of the youngest guys on the team. Nevertheless, he managed to obtain a spot playing in the NACSB Prospect Games at Liberty University in late June and achieved Pitcher of the Night during a game against the Rochester Ridgemen on July 9th. Over the summer, Alex pitched in 10 games, managing 35 strikeouts within 24 total innings, truly preparing and exciting him for his start at Mount St. Mary’s University in August 2024, a division 1 school he had committed to in January 2023.

Alex had always been open and passionate about mental health, always assuring others that he was in their corner and always would be and showed them in every way he could that he truly was. It was a goal of his to be a true friend to everyone and displayed that through his courage to be vulnerable and open with some of his own struggles, both on and off the baseball field – letting people know they weren’t alone in their feelings. He grew to have a resilient, “bounce-back” mentality from a young age where he was used to giving 200% to put his best-self forward and encouraged others to try to do the same for themselves. Though he wasn’t ashamed to voice some of his struggles, he did hold the deeper ones in and tried to do what he could to push through his thoughts and focus on what the future had to bring for him. Unfortunately, Alex lost his mental health battle, and made the choice to no longer be with us on September 8th, 2024. If there’s one thing that he’d want the world to know, especially young men like himself (but everyone in general) is that it’s okay to not be or feel okay, you’re never alone in how you’re feeling, and it’s one hundred percent okay to speak up about what you’re going through. It doesn’t make you any less strong, or any less of a human if you do; in fact, it makes you much stronger and more human by finding the courage to do so in the midst of the mind’s haze.

Athletes are generally thought of as one of the healthiest populations in our society, yet the pressures of school, internal and external performance expectations, time demands, injury, athletic identity, and physical fatigue can lead to depression, mental health problems, and suicide. Suicide is the second leading cause of death for NCAA athletes, doubling in prevalence over the last 20 years, with 77% of suicide victims being men. These pressures and stressors are things that could develop in adolescence, when the child is looking to improve and grow to be the best they can, but are likely to be amplified as the years go on with difficulty increasing in the competitiveness of play and the balancing of life while still trying to have fun. With having extensive first-hand knowledge and experience in the mental health field and of the pressures that athletics can have on a person, Alex’s parents, Christie and Joey, have made it a mission of theirs to bring more light to the potential struggles of athletes of all ages – a group of people who, like Alex, might not discuss their struggles to their full extent. Reframing verbal coaching strategies, ensuring consistent mental health support, and most importantly removing the stigma that fighting a mental battle makes you an inadequate athlete, or incapable of achieving the goals you have set, are just a few of the things that Christie and Joey hope to make an impact on for current and future athletes, in all levels.

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2005
Born November 17
2006
Alexander was 1 when Twitter was launched
2007
Alexander was 2 when the first iPhone went on sale
2016
Alexander was 11 when Pokemon Go sent millions outdoors hunting creatures
2017
Alexander was 12 when "Fortnite" became a video game phenomenon
2022
Alexander was 17 when Queen Elizabeth II died after 70 years on the throne
2024
Passed away September 8, age 18
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It was a honor to be able to share the field with Alex this summer. The silversmiths all bonded with Alex so well and quickly realized how amazing of a person and player he was. Alex will always be with us when we step out on the field ❤️✝️

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Lindsey Jamison 102w

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Alex was not just my best friend, but he was my brother. He was definitely a rare kind of person. He had such genuine kindness towards others and he could easily put a smile on your face by just walking into the room. We may not have been blood related, but he treated me like I was his blood sister and I couldn't have been more grateful to have even known such a beautiful soul. Rest easy sweet boy, give heaven some hell for me.

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