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Portrait of Joan Askew Siplin
Always in our hearts…

Joan Askew Siplin

December 22, 1945 – July 17, 2024
Lived 78 years
Woodlawn Memorial Garden · Virginia Beach, VA
We thought of you today, but that is nothing new. We thought about you yesterday and days before that too. We think of you in silence, we often speak your name. All we have are memories and your picture in a frame. Your memory is a keepsake from which we’ll never part. God has you in His arms, We have you in our hearts.
Life story

Joan Askew Siplin, born December 22, 1945, in Norfolk, VA, passed away July 17, 2024. She was the beloved daughter of the late Clarence and Georgia Howard Askew. Joan's educational journey culminated with her graduation from Union Kempsville High School, class of 1964, where she proudly held the position of Salutatorian.

With diligence and dedication, Joan embarked on a career path that showcased her strong work ethic. Beginning as a United States Postal worker, she later transitioned to the banking industry.

A pillar of faith and community, Joan was an active member of Greater Mount Zion Baptist Church in Chesapeake, VA. She wholeheartedly served on the church’s Diaconate Fellowship, Senior Usher Board and was the former chair of the Missionary Circle. Additionally, she served as the financial secretary for both Greater Mount Zion Missionary Baptist and her former church, New Hope Missionary Baptist Church in Virginia Beach, VA.

Beyond her church duties, Joan selflessly volunteered for “Meals On Wheels” in the Virginia Beach/Chesapeake area. Her devotion extended to her role as a loving babysitter to her granddaughters, Tiffany and Kayla, and great-grandson, Shamon, who held a special place in her heart.

Joan's legacy lives on through the cherished memories shared with her devoted husband of 40 years, Reverend Dudley “Steve” Siplin, her three loving daughters, Natalie P. Smith, Rolanda Y. Sykes (Leon), Jermaine E. Newton (Dorian), stepson Kenyetta Siplin (Melissa), and twelve precious grandchildren and six great-grandchildren.

She is survived by her sisters, Gloria Ferebee of Chesapeake, VA, and Tamma Joyce Holmes of Long Beach, CA, along with a special niece, Dr. Fontaine Ferebee-Johns of Chesapeake, VA, and a host of other nieces, nephews, and countless loving relatives and friends.

Joan's enduring impact on those around her will be remembered with fondness and gratitude.

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The world Joan knew

Family milestones in gold, history for context

1945
Born December 22
1946
Joan was 1 when "It's a Wonderful Life" opened in theaters
1959
Joan was 14 when Barbie made her debut
1961
Joan Pictured with Scholastic Team
1964
Joan’s High School Graduation from Union Kempsville High School
1967
Joan was 22 when the first Super Bowl was played
1969
Joan with daughters Natalie (right) and Rolanda (left) on Christmas
1971
Joan was 26 when Walt Disney World opened in Florida
1973
Joan with sisters Gloria and Tammy
1976
Joan with her daughters at Kings Dominion
1982
Joan was 37 when Michael Jackson released "Thriller"
1986
Joan with daughter Rolanda
1986
Joan with granddaughter, Tiffany
1987
Joan with granddaughter Tiffany
1987
Joan Pictured at Central Fidelity Bank
1988
Joan with granddaughter, Tiffany
1991
Joan with granddaughter, Tiffany
1997
Joan at the wedding of her daughter, Rolanda
1998
Joan was 53 when "Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone" was published in America
1999
Joan and daughter, Jermaine, at her wedding
2002
Joan and Steve at the Christening of granddaughter, Kayla
2004
Joan with granddaughter, Kayla
2004
Joan was 59 when Facebook was launched
2009
Trip to Hawaii with Family
2011
Cruise with Family to the Bahamas
2012
Christmas with Family
2013
Joan with daughters Natalie, Rolanda, Jermaine, and granddaughter, Kayla on a Cruise to Nowhere
2013
Family Reunion in California
2014
Joan was 69 when the Ice Bucket Challenge went viral
2015
Joan’s Birthday Party
2016
Joan with Natalie (left) and Tiffany (middle) at her baby shower
2016
Joan Celebrating her sister, Gloria’s Birthday
2017
Joan with great-granddaughter, A’mya
2017
Joan celebrating her niece, Fontaine’s Graduation
2018
Celebrating Joan’s Birthday with Family
2020
Joan and Steve at Kayla’s Graduation Party
2022
Joan with Natalie and Gloria
2022
Joan with great-granddaughter, A’mya
2022
Joan was 77 when Queen Elizabeth II died after 70 years on the throne
2023
Joan with Rolanda and Kayla
2023
Joan with friends
2023
Joan holding her great-grandson, Shamon’s hand
2024
Passed away July 17, age 78
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Kayla Sykes 101w

My Wonderful Gran

My favorite memory of me and Gran has to be going to Denny’s after I got a good report card and eating breakfast together! We would go to Macy’s and Harris Teeter all the time, and I’d just follow Gran around like her shadow. Now she follows me around everywhere I go; in spirit, I know she is with me.

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