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Portrait of Alicia Jan Waddell
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Alicia Jan Waddell

May 3, 1952 – July 7, 2022
Lived 70 years
Griswold Cemetary · Griswold, Iowa
"Til we meet again"
Life story

Alicia Jan (Slemp) Waddell, was born, on May 3, 1952 in Hamburg, IA, the only child, to Olin Herman Slemp and Alyce Virginia (Brown) Slemp. She gained her angels wings and went home to be with her Lord and Savior on July 7, 2022 at her home, surrounded by her loving family, after a long two-year hard-fought battle with cancer.

Jan’s family moved to Lamoni, IA when Jan, (as she was called) was three years old, and later to Davis City, IA where she spent the rest of her youth. Jan attended elementary school in Davis City, then Leon Community School in Leon, IA. She graduated from then, Central Decatur Com. Schools) in Leon with the class of 1970.

Jan was baptized at the Davis City United Methodist Church 1964. Her faith in her Lord Jesus Christ was always a shining light in her life and to those around her. She was active in MYF at her church. She was in Girls Scouts, and belonged to the order or Rainbow Girls, holding positions in most of the offices.

On November 20, 1964, when Jan was only 12 years old, her daddy, Olin, was tragically killed near Leon, IA in a crash. Her mother, was seriously injured as well. Jan was cared for by friends and family until Alyce’s recovery and was then raised by her loving mom.

Jan was a winter sports cheerleader at Central Decatur, participated in band, chorus, speech/drama, and class VP. She was awarded the Arion Award for band upon her graduation.

Jan attended Northwest Missouri University for a year and a half, then transferred to Graceland College in Lamoni, IA. She graduated in 1974, Cum Laude, with a Bachelor of Arts degree in elementary education, with a minor in library Science. She served first as assistant, and later director of the Lamoni preschool for two years. She continued her teaching career in elementary and junior high school in Ridgway, MO. for several years.

On December 31, 1972, Jan was united in marriage to Clarence Glen Waddell at the Davis City United Methodist church. They lived in Lamoni for 14 years and were members and faithful servants of the Lamoni Methodist Church. Jan and Clarence’s home was blessed with two children, Preston Slemp Waddell in 1974 and Leslie Jan Waddell in 1977.

The summer of 1984, the family moved to Atlantic, IA where Clarence continued his career at a police officer. The family was again baptized, this time by immersion, and joined and served the First Baptist Church in Atlantic. Jan was soon hired by C&M schools, where she taught every grade except kindergarten. In the 2003-04 school year, when Cumberland, Massena and Anita later consolidated into CAM Schools, Jan was transferred to middle school in Massena where She taught middle school reading and later English. After 32 years in education, Jan retired in 2014.

In 1995, the family moved one last time to Griswold, IA where Clarence became the police chief for the community. They joined Central Church of Christ there and remained faithful members and servants until the time of Jan’s death. Jan loved the Lord with all her heart and she loved being a part of her church. She enjoyed her ladies Bible study, Life Group, ladies circle, singing on the praise team, putting on short plays and playing her fun characters Millie and Tillie, to promote many church activities.

The entire family enjoyed square dancing for many years with the Circle L square dancing club in Lamoni. When they moved to Atlantic, they continued with the Atlantic club. The family enjoyed many wonderful vacations together. Jan and Clarence continued their love of travel with trips to the British Iles, Alaska and Hawaii cruises and many bus tours around the US. Jan loved reading books, playing piano, and playing cards with friends. She and Clarence loved camping. She was a proud member of the PEO-GL chapter in Griswold and a member of the Tuesday Music Club. After retirement, Jan and Clarence joined the Grist Mill Theater in Macedonia, IA, where they performed in many fun plays and musicals. They also served on the Grist Mill Fine Arts, board of directors. Most of all, Jan deeply loved spending time with her family and friends. She loved attending all of the grandkid’s sporting events, dance recitals and seeing “our girls” sing on their church praise team.

Jan was preceded in death by her parents, Olin and Alyce, her grandparents, her cousin Steven Ottman as well as several very close aunts and uncles. Left to cherish her memories are her husband of almost 50 year, Clarence Waddell of Griswold, IA, son Preston Waddell of Ankeny, IA, and daughter Leslie (Nickolas) Amdor of Carson, IA. Four grandchildren, Cody Michael Waddell of Onawa, IA, Ashlynn Janae Amdor, Elyssa Paige Amdor and Peyton James Amdor, all of Carson, IA.

The family will meet with friends and family for a time of love, stories and fellowship at the Central Church of Christ on Sunday July 10th from 2:30 – 4:30. Funeral services with be held at the Central Church of Christ on Monday, July 11th at 10:30 am with Pastor, Tony Brandt officiating. A luncheon will be served at the church after the burial at the Griswold Cemetery, west of town. All are invited stay and continue to share love and fellowship with the family.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to the family to be given to Jan’s favorite charities at a later date.

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1952
Born May 3
1952
Born in Hamburg, Iowa
1955
Moved to Lamoni, then to Davis City- Olin, Alyce, & Jan Slemp
1959
Alicia was 7 when Barbie made her debut
1964
Baptized in Davis City at the United Methodist Church
1964
Olin(her dad) died in a car accident
1964
Alicia was 12 when the Beatles appeared on The Ed Sullivan Show
1970
Graduated High School Leon
1971
Graduated College- 1 1/2 yr Northwest Missouri State Univ
1971
Alicia was 19 when Walt Disney World opened in Florida
1972
Married Clarence Waddell- Davis City, United Methodist Church
1974
Graduated Graceland College
1974
First teaching job until they moved to Atlantic Ridgeway, MO and Lamoni, IA Preschool
1974
Preston was born
1977
Leslie was born
1984
Moved to Atlantic
1984
Taught at CAM 1984-2014 CAM Elementary
1984
Baptized at First Baptist Church, Atlantic Iowa
1989
Alicia was 37 when the Berlin Wall fell
1991
Alicia was 39 when the Soviet Union dissolved
1995
Moved to Griswold Griswold, Iowa
2001
Cody Michael Waddell
2001
Ashlynn Janae Amdor
2001
Alicia was 49 when Apple introduced the iPod
2005
Elyssa Paige Amdor
2009
Peyton James Amdor
2014
Retired CAM MS/HS
2014
Alicia was 62 when the Ice Bucket Challenge went viral
2020
Cancer Diagnosis
2020
Whipple surgery
2020
Alicia was 68 when SpaceX launched astronauts into orbit for the first time
2021
CANCER FREE
2021
Cancer metastisized
2022
70th Birthday
2022
50th Wedding Anniversary
2022
Passed away July 7, age 70
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Leslie Amdor 97w

Things my mom said while on Hospice

Mom: ◦ The dog needs to sleep. ◦ I’m glad we just had one puppy. ◦ I shouldn’t have to die like this. ◦ I’m tired. ◦ I’m not sure what you’re doing mom, she said I’m not sure either. ◦ Let’s go home. ◦ There’s this ornery doctor..mom who is? Dr Berry? She nodded yes. ◦ Put this down. (The bed railing) ◦ Do you want a catheter in mom? No count me out. ◦ Mom asked how the house was and we said dad cleaned it yesterday…she said oh dear! ◦ Well grandma keeps dropping the angel food cake on the floor and feeding Annie (elyssa says) and nana pointed at elyssa ◦ Mom smelled Preston’s hand and said he smelled better.

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Leslie Amdor 97w

My eulogy to my mom

Mom- Known by others as nana, wife, friend and Jan, but to me, just Mom! She didn’t always agree with my choices in life, the clothing I wore, what I did with my friends in my free time, or where I was going, but she still loved me unconditionally and prayed I would make the right choices. As a matter of fact, every time we headed out the door, she and dad would say, “wear your seatbelt, watch for deer and call me when you get there!” And we did. As an adult, I think about my children driving places alone and realize how important they are to me and how quickly they could be taken away from me. Thanks for the constant reminder-mom:) I have so many memories with my mom but too many to talk about. One that sticks out in my mind is whenever she was asked to sing, she would graciously volunteer me to sing with her. No matter how nervous and scared I was…I still did it, because it made her happy and proud (even when I got off key). They attended all my HS and College concerts and would sit as close to the front as they could. It also didn’t matter if my recitals were 2 days long…they sat through all hours of the shows. Growing up we always had supper at 6:00 when dad could stop by during his shift. Let me tell you she didn’t just make Mac and cheese, every supper meal had your four food groups! Sundays were generally roast dinners or out to eat at Van’s chat and chew. As my kids got older we rarely saw one another for several days unless it was at a sporting event so Sunday dinners and family time was very limited. I grew up going to church EVERY Sunday…I mean we never missed! But we also made a lot of long lasting friendships. We were very involved with the choir, Christmas and Easter programs,VBS, Sunday school and Wednesday youth groups. As I got older and went to college, I found it hard to attend church as I was working two part time jobs and going to school full time and my excuse was that Sunday was my only day off to rest! Shortly after I had Ashlynn, I knew I wanted her for grow up knowing the lord and having faith guide her through life. So while nick was working weekends, she and I tried visited different churches in the area, but mom seemed to fit us. When she was almost 3 we loved to Carson and knew no one. But as a family we visited the Carson Methodist church. I feel this was when my mom could tell I was bringing back my faith and finding my path…I just had to do it on my own. I thank her every day for not giving up on me and teaching me to love the lord and trust him. Dad and mom often visited our church and made several friends there as well. Then came COVID and Cancer…april 1st,2020, the end of Ashlynn senior year. Mom had been so excited to watch her finish all the things she was involved in. But we had to miss it all after March 17th. The girls and I decided to visit mom on April 1st and play some cards since the kids were stuck at home. Mom questioned about the color of her eyes and skin. We agreed they looked jaundice. She awaited a call from Dr Berry who quickly called and told her to go to the hospital. While on her way home, the hospital called her back to do more testing. It was true, the big C word was discovered. After several months of infections and two rounds of chemo, she was approved for surgery. It all went as planned and I’m just under a year, she was declared “in remission”. All mom wanted to hear was “in remission”. However that soon fell short just a couple months later when her scan showed her new liver spot. So she went head first into new chemo. She had been doing so well and her numbers were dropping but before they could hit bottom they starting going back up. Her June scans showed 4 more spots on three more areas. It was growing aggressively. So we stopped chemo to try to get into trials. Her only other option was more chemo which would’ve just made her worse. We didn’t hear back from Mayo but while mom was on hospice, they left two messages. We are unsure if she consciously knew it or just chose that she knew it was her time and she wanted to spend it with us. For those of us near her, her last week on hospice went quickly. But on the 4th she was alert and seemed to know everything. When I left that day I patted her arm to tell her I would be back (I didn’t want her to think I was going to be gone a long time), she said ok, I kissed her cheek and she softly patted both of mine and smiled real big. The best-last memory I have of my mom. The girls and I were present when she passed and it hurt…I mean it really hurt, even though we knew it would be soon but each day gets a little bit better. She is so strong and truly a rock in our family and we will miss her laugh, her planning, acting, sharing, and loving nature. I will miss our calls on my way home from work while she pauses her Dr Phil show and sometimes interrupts her naps. But she did those things for me, just because she wanted to hear from me. I am blessed that she is at peace but there will always be an empty spot in my heart for her down here on earth. I love you mom…always and forever. If there is an empty seat next to me, it will be saved for you.

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Funeral Guestbook Messages

Nicole Brown and Family from Centerville, Iowa, wrote on Jul. 10, 2022 Thinking of you all, Jan was a wonderful women and very caring ❤️ Robert L Kilgore from Clayton, North Carolina, wrote on Jul. 10, 2022 Clarence and family, Jan was a very special person and I remember both of you from high school. Alyce worked many years for my dad and she and Jan were very special to my parents. I am so very sorry for your loss and have nothing but good memories from Jan and all those years back in Leon. Clarence, I saw your brother at the Central Decatur High School Reunion for the class of 1967. I asked him to say hello to both of you and wish your both the best. Alyce went to school with my dad's oldest sister's husband and when they would visit they would go to Davis City to say hello. God's blessings and comfort be with all of you. Sincerely, Rob Kilgore Rita Teamer from Des Moines, wrote on Jul. 10, 2022 I went to school with Jan as well as lived in Davis City, too. I am so sorry for your loss. May God give you all strength Pam from Curtis, wrote on Jul. 9, 2022 I don’t have many customers that I can say I have done their hair for almost 40 years but Jan is one of them❣️We formed a bond between us that lasted 40 years and beyond! I just hope Clarence Leslie and Preston and her grandkids know she loved you all so much! She was a Christian, a Lady and a great friend❣️God has gained a loyal servant 💖🙏🏻🙏🏻 Fenner Shelly from Macedonia, wrote on Jul. 9, 2022 Jan was such a loyal support for her grandkids and their events they were in. I loved seeing her and her glow because she was so proud of them and their successes! She was talented in theater. Kind to everyone she met and had a strong faith in God which was a glow in her I could not explain! Leslie Amdor from Carson, IA, wrote on Jul. 8, 2022 I am going to miss my mom so very much. Our daily conversations on my way home from work as well as hearing about her day and how she was feeling. She always wanted what was best for me and took care of me and my family. I will miss her at my kids' events and knowing she would've loved watching them...especially at dance recitals. She was our everything. I am thankful for the last 45 years that I was lucky enough to have her with me and wanted so many more. We love you mom and hope you know how much you mean to us and how much we loved you ~ You're favorite daughter, Leslie Bobbie Cottrell (Minard) from Atlantic, Iowa, wrote on Jul. 8, 2022 I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time Shared Candle Travis Steffens from Council Bluffs, wrote on Jul. 7, 2022 So sorry for your loss! I will always cherish the many days spent with Jan and the many kind gestures and meals over the years! May she rest easy and you find peace in her comfort. DEBBIE SEIFERT from TUCSON, wrote on Jul. 7, 2022 Words cannot convey how heavy my heart is for you, Clarence, Leslie, Preston and family. Jan was a very special lady and was a testament of true Christian, friend, and community member, I never saw her without a smile on her face. Know she is now cancer and pain free, and will watch over you. She is wrapped the HIS arms as you are as you endure these very trying times. Love and hugs to all of you. Shared Candle Grace McAfee from Anita, wrote on Jul. 7, 2022 So very sorry to hear of Mrs. Waddell's passing. She was my middle school English Teacher and I was so very lucky to have her. I was never good at the subject - in fact, I'm sure she is in Heaven now with a red pen fixing my grammatical errors (I wouldn't have it any other way). Mrs. Waddell was the kind of teacher who expected the best out of her students and never gave up on them. I couldn't tell you the number of hours she spent with me to make sure I understood the content. I am now a teacher myself and I hope that one day I can live up to the example she set. My thoughts and prayers go up to her family and I hope that fond memories provide support and peace in this difficult time. Lywanda Case wrote on Jul. 7, 2022 Thinking of you all!♡ Shared Candle Judy Miller from Atlantic, wrote on Jul. 7, 2022 So very sorry to hear of Jan's passing. She was such a beautiful person inside and out. Sending prayers of comfort to her family.

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