Portrait of Mathew Steven Curtiss
VETERAN

Mathew Steven Curtiss

March 24, 1990 – November 30, 2025
Lived 35 years
Igo Veteran’s Cemetary · Igo, California
The nicest asshole you ever met!
In service to country

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Mathew served in the armed forces. We honor that service here.

Life story

Mathew Steven Curtiss was born on March 24, 1990, the first son to Steven Curtiss and Sandra Kern. He was raised in Redding, California, where he attended Lassen View Elementary School, later moving on to Parsons Junior High School, and graduating from Enterprise High School in 2008.

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In his young years he developed a strong love for video gaming, as most kids his age did. He carried that love through his lifetime. At one point, he even began collecting every type of video game system ever made back to the first-generation Nintendo system. He loved harassing everyone to ‘join his party’ and being in control of the team he assembled to dominate whatever game he conned them into playing.

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Following high school, Mathew spent a couple of years enjoying life with friends and growing into adulthood. At the age of 20, he felt called to serve his country and began exploring military options, ultimately choosing the United States Air Force. In March 2010, Mathew boarded the MEPS mobile to Sacramento, where he proudly swore in with his mother, father, and stepmother by his side. That day also marked his very first airplane flight as he departed for Air Force Basic Training.

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Mathew attended boot camp in San Antonio, Texas. Though the experience was challenging, he pushed through with determination and graduated on time. It was later discovered that the physical strain he endured was compounded by a fracture in his tibia, making the marching and running especially painful; yet he never quit.

After basic training, Mathew was stationed in Biloxi, Mississippi, where he attended tech school for Air Traffic Control. During his time there, he also assisted with cleanup efforts following the massive Gulf of Mexico oil spill.

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Upon returning home, Mathew began working at Jack in the Box, where in 2014 he met the love of his life, Kimberly. Their relationship quickly blossomed, and before long they were proud to move into their first apartment together.

As they built their life side by side, Mathew searched for a fulfilling civilian career. He found his calling as a pharmacy technician, joining Rite Aid, which supported him through his training. Known for his intelligence and focus, Mathew passed both his state and national pharmacy tech exams with ease.

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For Christmas one year, Kimberly wanted to add a dog to their family. Mathew didn’t love the idea but loved Kim and reluctantly agreed. In 2016, Dee became the newest Curtiss family member. Much to Mathew’s chagrin, Dee claimed him as ‘her person’ and the two quickly became inseparable. The bond they shared was unlike any other. He would do anything for her, at any expense, even if it meant sacrificing his own needs or putting their family in debt. Dee’s well-being was a top priority. She was his child and he loved her deeply.

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In 2017, Mathew decided it was time to make a lifelong commitment to Kimberly. He planned a magical trip to Disneyland and proposed in front of the iconic castle on January 21, 2018, surrounded by cheering family and friends. Kimberly happily said yes, and the two were married on September 16, 2019, at the Elks Lodge in Redding.

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Mathew was well known for his love of fast, sporty cars. Over the years, he owned several; beginning with a 2019 Dodge Charger Scat Pack, followed by a jet-black Chevy Corvette, lovingly known at the ‘Mat-mobile’, and eventually trading up to his prized limited-edition ‘serialized’ 2025 Ford Mustang Dark Horse. Although each car was unique and special in its own way, they all had one thing in common, his personalized license plate “MATIMUS”, which he proudly displayed on each one.

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After years of dedication and hard work, Mathew and Kimberly achieved their dream of homeownership, purchasing their first home in West Redding in April 2025. Mathew took immense pride in their home, eagerly upgrading every tech feature he could, from voice-activated systems to smart automation. Even yardwork, which he always despised, became a source of pride, because it was ‘his’ yard.

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In 2024, Mathew reached a professional milestone when he secured his dream job as a pharmacy technician with the VA, where he could finally begin building retirement for the future he envisioned. He spent the remainder of his years serving veterans with dedication and care.

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Mathew is survived by his loving wife, Kimberly Curtiss; his mother, Sandra Curtiss; his father, Steven Curtiss; his stepmother, Shawna Curtiss; his siblings, Maegan Smedley, Markus Curtiss, Anthony Curtiss, and Jace Buchanan; his grandmother Vivian Say; his beloved dog, Dee; and numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and cousins who will forever cherish his memory.

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Mathew will be remembered for the passion he had for video games, airsoft, Magic the Gathering, Batman, building gaming PC’s with precision and care, and the deep love he had for his family, especially Kimberly and Dee. His legacy lives on in the lives he touched and the life he so thoughtfully created.

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The world Mathew knew

Family milestones in gold, history for context

1990
Born March 24
1992
Mathew Became a BIG Brother/ Markus was born
1993
Mathew Became the BIGGEST Brother/ AJ joined the family
1994
Mathew was 4 when "Friends" premiered
1998
Mathew was 8 when Google was founded
2003
Mathew's First Day of Junior High Parson's Junior High School
2004
Mathew's 8th Grade Graduation Parson's Junior High
2004
Mathew was 14 when Facebook was launched
2005
Mathew was 15 when the first video was posted to YouTube
2006
Mathew's 16th Birthday
2006
Mathew Got his Driver's License
2007
Mat's First Day of 12th Grade Enterprise High School
2008
Mathew Graduated Enterprise High School
2010
Mathew's Air Force 'Going Away' Party
2010
Mathew Joined the United States Air Force/ MEPS
2010
Mathew is Officially an Airman San Antonio, Texas
2010
Mathew was 20 when Apple's iPad went on sale
2012
Mathew's 1st 'Legal' Beer
2014
Mat Met the Love of his Life
2014
Mat & Kim Officially Started Dating
2015
Mat & Kim Visited Disneyland for the First time Disneyland, California
2017
Mathew Picked "The Ring" for his Beloved Kimberly
2018
Mathew Proposed to Kim in Disneyland
2019
Mat & Kim Tied the Knot 💍
2025
Mat & Kim Bought a Home 🏠 Redding, California
2025
Passed away November 30, age 35
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Lizzy Hanks 39w

Niece and Uncle

My uncle was my favorite person, as i’m sure he was many’s. When I needed him he was there, when i wanted him there he showed up. When i was 14 we were driving around in Oregon when I mentioned that my first son will be named after him, he brushed me off. 6 years later came my son, Prometheus Mathew. My entire personality mixed of compassion, love, abrasion, and one hell of a vocabulary is all thanks to him. He was there at my darkest moments, moments where I never thought I would see the light again. He would wipe my tears and always help me keep going. He always called me the daughter he never wanted but was glad he had, and he was like my dad. He is the one to show me true unconditional love. A piece of me will be left with him forever, but I will keep his memory alive for many generations to come.

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Dennis Smith 40w

Photos from grandpa Dennis. Sorry.

Cherish all the good memories😍

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Katelin Delles 40w

Miss you brother.

I met Mat while working at rite aid. He was my supervisor. We quickly bonded over our mutual dark humor. We worked the closing shift in an unsafe area but I always knew if Mat was there, I didn’t have to worry. Over the years Mat became one of my dearest friends. Truly the nicest asshole I’ve ever met. And one of the best people.

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