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Portrait of Bruce Everett Bates Sr.
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Bruce Everett Bates Sr.

January 6, 1958 – December 28, 2025
Lived 67 years
Ethel's Garden · McComb, MS
"I see what they talking 'bout...New Beginnings..."
Life story

Bruce Everett Bates, Sr. was born on January 6, 1958, in Magnolia, Mississippi. Surrounded by his loving family, he transitioned to eternity on December 28, 2025, in Sachse, Texas.

Bruce graduated from South Pike High School in 1976. He went on to enlist in the United States Army and served from 1976 to 1982. He enjoyed a career as a Systems Engineer at Raytheon. A superior performer at Raytheon, he took pride in earning multiple accolades and awards throughout his tenure. After many years of service, he retired in 2013.

Affectionately regarded as "Pappadeaux," Bruce married his high school sweetheart, Gwendolyn Duncan, on November 23, 1978. To their union, two beautiful children - a son and a daughter - were loved and nurtured. The two remained united in holy matrimony until his transition.

Bruce delighted in many hobbies, including riding and watching trains, fishing, and supporting the Raiders and Lakers. He also had an avid fascination with big trucks, particularly 18-wheelers. He most enjoyed spending time with family and friends.

Bruce will be fondly remembered for his generous, jovial, and railfan nature. He was a hero to many, and his loving spirit will be missed by all who knew and loved him.

He was preceded in death by his father, James Bates, Sr.; mother, Lillie Beatrice (Clayton) Bates; father-in-law, Rev. Ernest Carter; mother-in-law, Ethel Mae (Anderson) Duncan; brothers-in-law, S.M. Duncan and Harrison Shaffer; and nephew, Arthur Hutchins, Jr.

Those left to cherish dear and lasting memories include his wife of 47 years, Gwendolyn Bates; son, Bruce Bates, Jr.; daughter, Candace Bates; grandsons, Xavier Carter Billiot, Gabriel Alexander Billiot, Jeremiah Brenton Billiot, and Braxton Elijah Billiot; brothers, James, Bates, Jr., Warren Bates (Sharon), Howard Bates, and Wendol Bates; sisters, Rosemary Bates and Owena (Wandell) Provo; brothers-in-law, Charles Anderson, Alphonse Duncan (Roselle), Walter Anderson (Tonette), Anthony Duncan, Jerry Duncan, sisters-in-law, Shirley Shaffer, Marilyn Anderson (Arthur, Sr.), Neicy Wilson (Calvin), Patricia Lenoir, and Cynthia Stepter (Mitchell); and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

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1958
Born January 6
1959
Bruce was 1 when Barbie made her debut
1969
Bruce was 11 when the Woodstock music festival opened
1974
Bruce was 16 when Dallas/Fort Worth Airport opened for passenger service
1978
Married to my Queen of 47 years
1979
1st Child Born
1980
Parenthood
1982
Bruce was 24 when Michael Jackson released "Thriller"
1997
Bruce was 39 when "Titanic" opened in theaters
2001
Bruce was 43 when Apple introduced the iPod
2016
Bruce was 58 when the Dallas Cowboys moved headquarters to The Star in Frisco
2022
Bruce was 64 when Tesla opened Gigafactory Texas near Austin
2025
Passed away December 28, age 67
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