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Brian Neal Cox

November 23, 1974 – November 22, 2019
Lived 44 years
Benld Illinois · Benld, Illinois
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Life story

Brian was the son of Glen and Barbara Cox of Benld. He was one of 11 children. Brian graduated from Gillespie High School in 1994. He then joined the Army after he graduated and was stationed at Ft. Hood Texas. He married Khara Sies Cox in December of 1994. After his time in service he returned home and became a Correctional Officer at Gram Correctional Center, then leaving there to work at Department of Justice Federal Correctional Facility in Greenville Illinois. Brian became a father to his pride and joy Brilynn H. Cox in January of 2011. Brian was tragically killed in November of 2019. Brian enjoyed fishing, watching football in his garage, listening to his music, taking country cruises with his daughter and loved his family unconditionally. He is deeply missed by his wife, daughter, several sisters and brothers, nieces and nephews.

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Family milestones in gold, history for context

1974
Born November 23
1981
Brian was 7 when MTV began broadcasting
1982
Brian was 8 when Michael Jackson released "Thriller"
1995
Brian was 21 when "Toy Story" became the first fully computer-animated film
1997
Brian was 23 when "Titanic" opened in theaters
2001
Brian was 27 when the United States began military operations in Afghanistan
2019
Passed away November 22, age 44
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Khara Cox 11w

Like father like daughter...

I let her honor you for life. I know you watch over her everyday now you walk with her as well. 3223 days was not enough time with you. As she looks down she can visibly remember how precious time truly is. You are so dearly missed and always will be loved and remembered! Love Lynn

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Khara Cox 14w

Checklist

We spoke of you today, as we often do. We had ourselves a giggle knowing you have stopped in to mark on your checklist...I think he has passed most of your expectations. Brilynn had a good laugh at knowing you have stopped in lately 😌 Love and Miss you!

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Catelynn Whitworth 14w

hey

Stopped in to say hey and spruce your apt up 😘

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Khara Coxthank you Cate for always making his place so peaceful
Khara Cox 18w

Happy Heavenly Fathers Day

Its been awhile that I have written. I talk to you daily, sometimes I get a sign and sometimes you keep me wondering. Father's Day is hard for us. Babygirl struggled today, I could see the hurt behind her beautiful blue eyes. She is strong natured like you, that big beautiful heart takes a beating especially on Father's Day. Give my dad a squeeze for me. ❤️ you Bri

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Catelynn Whitworth 53w

🎃🍁🍂

Stopped in to say hi 😊

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Khara Cox 71w

Father's Day 2025

Father's Day is one of the toughest days.. Seeing everyone post and my first thought is you should be here. Took some extra time today to look at videos, and some made me cry, and others made me laugh. How lucky she (Brilynn) was to be loved by you. Happy Heavenly Father's Day Brian.. We love and miss you 🌹

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Catelynn Whitworth 73w

stopping in

Just stopped in to say hey and make your spot look nice. Miss you so much!!

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Khara CoxWhat a beautiful tribute.. Thanks Cate for always making his site beautiful
Khara Cox 76w

In the sky

With it being Mother's Day I asked for a sign from you today.. To tell me if I'm raising her right... Not even 5 minutes later, but I there was my sign ❤️☁️ thank you I needed that. See ya soon

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Catelynn Whitworth 80w

Just stopped by to say hi

Stopped in to say hi and bring some spring flowers. Love and miss you!!

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Khara Cox 94w

Big Snowfall

As I receive pictures today of the snowfall I can only think, you'd have Brilynn out in it making a snowman and taking her somewhere to go sledding ♥️ I will never forget the time we had blizzard like conditions and you were out in your PJs feeding the birds❤️ memories are a beautiful treasure that no one can take away.

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Khara Cox 96w

Thoughts

I think of you more often then not.. Still alot of why's did this have to happen. And as much as I question, I have to accept Gods plan is not our plan. Started living in the moment not the future, because the only thing we have is the past and today. Love you so very much and always will. Love-Lynn

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Khara Cox 98w

Thinking of you..

I could allow grief to bury me alive. Just let the loss of you crush what's left of me. But your not a memory, you're a light still shining. Burning bright and something I carry with me.

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