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Portrait of Donald Ray and Shirley Elizabeth Gregory
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Donald Ray and Shirley Elizabeth Gregory

October 6, 1936 – August 11, 2022
Lived 85 years
Proffer cemetery · Crump, Mo
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Life story

This is not my final resting place.

1936 was an eventful year. It was during this year that Donald Ray Gregory was born. He would be the oldest of four children. He set the example. When Don was 10 years old he contracted Rheumatic fever. In the 1940’s the leading cause of death of children was Rheumatic Fever. Many who suffered with it came to suffer with heart disease. But God had a plan and as his mom laid him in a bed and comforted him, this was not his final resting place.

He grew strong and conquered the fever. Shortly after, it was necessary that the family move to Whitewater, Missouri because little Don had asthma. The Granite City, Illinois factories’ pollution made it difficult for him to breathe. The suggested remedy was a country setting. It would benefit him greatly, as to be in bad health, this would not be his final resting place.

Don’s dad traveled back and forth from Granite City to Whitewater on the weekends to spend time with the family. Don grew stronger and stronger. He eventually met Shirley and they married when he was 17. Right away they began their family. They had four little girls. Just when they thought there would be no more children, Shirley was expecting a fifth. God had other plans, and the fifth girl passed away. While the sadness and despair were great, this would not be his final resting place.

Don and Shirley were a great team. Entrepreneurs . . . there was no fear about trying something new. They had a garage where they worked on cars. They made ceramics. They had a donut shop. They even gave the leftovers to a local that fed them to his animals. Nothing was wasted. They loved auctions and repurposing their finds. Don often said, “There’s a lot of life left in this!” Even if something was worn and tattered, Don knew this was not its final resting place. It could still be used, cleaned up, admired.

They began a company called Gregory News Agency. They took delivering newspapers to a whole new level. Vehicles would be gutted and paper rolling equipment was installed. They were adapt at rolling papers and throwing them across their vehicles onto properties with precision. They could drive, roll papers, and throw simultaneously and all this at 3 and 4 in the morning. Although Shirley did manage to take out a couple of mailboxes from time to time with the car. The kids and grandchildren all became excellent marksmen for paper throwing. But this would not be his final resting place.

Time is a curious thing. It seems to go quickly when we aren’t looking and at other times it slows to a crawl. There was one such event that took place where time became slow motion. Don found his grandson. He gently held him close, prayed a quick prayer, and said, “This is not your final resting place.” With a will that only a Father can extend, he placed this boy in his heavenly Father’s hands. And God agreed. He answered the prayer, and the boy grew strong just like his Granddad.

As we all come to do and look forward to doing, Don retired from his company and moved back to Whitewater where it all began. They made their home in a nice quiet place in the country where time seemed to slow down. Their golf cart found its way around the property as they worked on different things in the yard. There was a contentment, a satisfaction that rested between them. But he knew this too would not be his final resting place.

On August 11, 2022, Donald Ray Gregory passed away and most would say he was put to rest in a little cemetery in Crump, Missouri. But we all know this is not his final resting place. He isn’t resting there. He’s visiting and hugging necks. He’s telling another story and laughing heartily. He’s throwing papers at mansion doorsteps and Shirley is right by his side. He’s got a lot of life left in him . . . an eternity.

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The world Donald knew

Family milestones in gold, history for context

1936
Born October 6
1939
Donald was 3 when "Gone with the Wind" premiered in Atlanta
1942
Donald was 6 when Bing Crosby recorded "White Christmas"
1958
Donald was 22 when the Hula Hoop craze swept the country
1962
Donald was 26 when the Cuban Missile Crisis brought the world to the brink of nuclear war
1974
Donald was 38 when Richard Nixon resigned the presidency
1981
Donald was 45 when MTV began broadcasting
1998
Donald was 62 when "Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone" was published in America
2001
Donald was 65 when Apple introduced the iPod
2017
Donald was 81 when "Fortnite" became a video game phenomenon
2020
Donald was 84 when SpaceX launched astronauts into orbit for the first time
2022
Passed away August 11, age 85
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Donald and Shirley

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True love

Grandma posted this on facebook. Their love for each other is rarely seen anymore. My grandparents were the perfect example of how marriage should be. Miss them so much

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Diane’s birthday

Dinner at the casino for Diane’s birthday

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Donald’s 78th birthday

John placed a sign in the front yard for folks to make his birthday great and drop their aluminum cans off in the yard. Too funny!

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Grandpa being funny

Grandpa always had humor in his pocket. Even thru a stroke and having to have a feeding tube place he finds time to encourage us with his humor!!

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Wedding day

Donald and Shirley were married for 69 years in earth, they are now enjoying eternity with our Lord and Savior

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Grandpa and ma with some of the great great grand kids

What a blessing to see great and great great grandkids at Christmas

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