Rudy Olivas Carabajal

Hello my name is Rudy Carabajal, I am a son, husband, father and grandfather to 4 beautiful grand babies . I was born on May 5th, 1977 and am one of 6 children. I have a very big loving and chaotic family. We fight, we argue but most of all we love. I made many accomplishments in my life. I married the love of my life July 4th 2004 and had my 3 kids, as well as raised 2 step kids. I was very good with my hands. I was always building or fixing something anything to keep me busy, building my houses, owned and running a landscaping business, and dabbled in projects here and there. I was always on the go doing something building something or taking something apart. I guess you can say I loved my projects all 350 of them. I loved life, I loved my family, I loved being with people and laughing or joking or basically just catching up. I was always in high spirits and most people lived to be around me. There is nothing I loved more then my wire, kids and grandkids I lived for them, to provide for them and just loved to make them happy. THAT I WOULD SAY WAS MY MISSION IN LIFE. There was nothing that could keep me down or that could keep me from working and progressing I love life and I didn’t wanna die. Unfortunately, my body was really tired God was giving me a second chance, and I wanted to take it, but it seems he had other plans for me instead as I was waiting for my transplant I’ve begun to get more sick in December 2023 shortly after thinking things would resolve on its own sadly that was not the case. I unexpectedly was put into a medicated a-coma while I was waiting for a transplant, but it seems things took a turn for the worse, my body was tired couldn’t hang on anymore, and God was calling me to him, so I never woke from that medically induced coma, and my family had to make the hard decision of turning off the machines and letting me go. I took my last breath on January 7, 2024 at 3:05 AM with my wife and daughter beside me. Life goes by fast nobody takes the time to sit back and enjoy moments. I was blessed with spending my last day on earth playing a board game with my wife, seeing my mother and family members and laughing with my grandkids. Enjoy the little things they matter.

To my loved ones, I am sorry that I had to leave you. I hate watching you miss me and cry I know how much I am loved. But please don’t spend too much time being sad, and don’t spend too much time questioning why. My death showed you that tomorrow isn’t promised, so live and enjoy life while you can, and when you feel sad thinking I am not with you, please don’t ever forget I am always with you. I am with you in all your big moments. I’ve seen everything that you have done, and I’m so proud of everything you have achieved. I am so proud of who you are today who you have become. Don’t worry about all the things that you didn’t say. Don’t ever feel guilty I know what I meant to you. whenever you feel happy don’t feel guilty I’d hate to think my death destroyed you. I want you to be brave and Carry on, although I am not physically with you, the love we shared could never be gone. So don’t worry about what we didn’t get to do, because you can do so much with your time live it and know that I am always with you and watch over you. Always remember when you think of me I am in your heart and that love can never ever die. Remember me and be happy