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Portrait of Oliver James Hayes
In loving memory

Oliver James Hayes

May 3, 1980 – March 29, 2026
Lived 45 years
Park Rapids, Minnesota
“At the end of the day, it's not about what you have or even what you've accomplished… It's about who you've lifted up, who you've made better."-Denzel Washington
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Bradley “O.J.” James Hayes, 45, Park Rapids, MN passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, March 29, 2026.

O.J. was born May 3, 1980 to James and Marcella (Ness) Hayes in Park Rapids. He grew up in Park Rapids and graduated with the class of 1999. After living in Duluth and St. Cloud, he returned to the Park Rapids area and was self-employed as a carpenter/builder for 25 years.

O.J. enjoyed fishing, deer hunting in Gonvick, going to concerts, and attending special occasions with his family. He especially loved spending time with his 4 kids. O.J. loved all people and would give anyone the shirt off his back. He was happy to help and always had a smile on his face.

O.J. is survived by his children, Mason, Kolter, Shailyn and Wyatt Hayes of Park Rapids; his father, Jim (Carly) Hayes of Park Rapids; his siblings, Emily (Kyle) Medearis of Baker, MT, Adam (Jeana) Hayes of Hill City, SD; his significant other, Kris Otterson of Park Rapids; 8 nieces and nephews; numerous aunts, uncles and cousins.

He is preceded in death by his mother, Marcy Hayes; grandparents, Dick and Addie Ness, Bud and Iris Hayes

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1980
Born May 3
1989
Oliver was 9 when the Berlin Wall fell
1994
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1998
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2001
Oliver was 21 when Apple introduced the iPod
2004
Oliver was 24 when Facebook was launched
2026
Passed away March 29, age 45
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