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Portrait of Wanda Mae Schlabsz
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Wanda Mae Schlabsz

January 16, 1954 – April 24, 2026
Lived 72 years
Ashley, ND
Life story

Wanda Mae, daughter of Annetta "Nettie" (Fregien) and Edwin "Eddie" Heinrich, was born January 16, 1954, in Ellendale, ND. Her family rented farms near Ashley, and when Wanda was 12, they settled on a farmstead 21 miles northeast of Ashley. She attended Ashley Public School and graduated with the AHS Class of 1972.

Wanda was united in marriage to Charles Schlabsz on August 19, 1972, in Ashley. They made their home northeast of Ashley, where they operated a dairy farm, raised chickens and many small animals, and welcomed three daughters: Shelly, Michelle, and Melissa. Charles passed away on July 18, 1988.

Wanda later met Curtis Nies, and together they lived on the Nies farm nine miles north of Ashley. They had one daughter, April. Curtis passed away on March 25, 2025. Wanda continued to make her home in Ashley for the remainder of her life.

Wanda devoted many years to her work as a cook. She began at Scott's Family Restaurant, which later became Dakota Family Restaurant under the ownership of Paul and Sandra Miller. After the business was sold, she took a cooking position at Ashley Medical Center, where she worked from 2008 until her retirement in July 2024.

She was a lifelong member of Zion Lutheran Church in Ashley. Wanda had a deep love for gardening, canning and pickling, caring for her many houseplants, and sewing. Above all, she especially loved her family. She devoted her life to her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Wanda spent her retirement traveling to visit her grandchildren in Fargo/Moorhead and visiting the farm often to help with gardening, canning pickles, and playing with her most recent twin grandchildren. Attending family events and watching her grandchildren and great-grandchildren grow was her best treasured life accomplishment.

Wanda Mae Schlabsz, 72, Ashley, ND, died at her home Friday, April 24, 2026. Funeral services are scheduled for 10:00 AM, Friday, May 1, 2026 at Zion Lutheran Church, Ashley, led by Minister Amanda Nitschke. Interment follows at the Church Cemetery. Usher will be Denny Hoffman; organist will be Steve Glaesmann; Congregational Hymns will be "In the Garden" and "What a Friend we have in Jesus"; and recorded vocals will be "Still Waters" by Leanna Crawford and "I Can Only Imagine" by Mercy Me.

Wanda is survived by Four daughters-Shelly (Jami) Hills of Moorhead, MN, Michelle (John) Kempf and April (Jeremy Arlien) Nies of Ashley, and Melissa (John) Bengson of Fargo, ND; three brothers-Lester Heinrich, Larry Heinrich, and Jim Heinrich of Ashley; one sister-Peggy Pribula of Grand Forks, ND; nine grandchildren; and three great grandchildren.

In addition to Charles and Curtis, she was preceded in death by her father, Eddie, on September 15, 2015; and her mother, Nettie, on December 12, 2020.

Casketbearers will be nephews Adam Pribula of Grand Forks and Travis Pribula of Williston, ND; cousin Joe Fregien of Ashley; and grandsons-Tanner Kempf of Horace, ND, and Mason Hills and Carson Hills of Moorhead.

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1954
Born January 16
1959
Wanda was 5 when Barbie made her debut
1967
Wanda was 13 when the first Super Bowl was played
1977
Wanda was 23 when Elvis Presley died
1981
Wanda was 27 when MTV began broadcasting
1998
Wanda was 44 when Google was founded
2005
Wanda was 51 when the first video was posted to YouTube
2017
Wanda was 63 when "Fortnite" became a video game phenomenon
2022
Wanda was 68 when Queen Elizabeth II died after 70 years on the throne
2026
Passed away April 24, age 72
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Alexis Kempf 6w

We miss you grandma 🤍

Thanks for painting a pretty sunset tonight.

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April Nies 9w

Grandma

120 days without you. Hope you are watching from heaven. We have so many things we wish we could tell you. 🩵🩷

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Melissa Bengson 12w

Visiting Grandma

We love you Grandma!

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Alexis Kempf 22w

Having a beer with Grandma 🤍

Should’ve brought moonshine but a beer will have to do tonight

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April Nies 22w

Grandma

Happy Heavenly Mother’s Day Grandma

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