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Portrait of Paula Ann Backes-Tanner
In loving memory of

Paula Ann Backes-Tanner

November 20, 1962 – April 5, 2022
Lived 59 years
Assumption Cemetery · New Haven, MO
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Paula Ann Backes-Tanner, 59, of New Haven, MO, passed away Tuesday, April 5, 2022 at her home.

Paula was born in Washington, Missouri on November 20, 1962, the daughter of Frederick “Bud” & Carroll (Quick) Backes.

She was the wife of Steve Tanner. They were united in marriage on August 16, 2008, in New Haven, Missouri.

Paula was a member of St. Peter’s United Church of Christ, New Haven.

Paula had a heart of gold and truly lived life to the fullest. Family was everything to Paula. She was the absolute best Nan to her grandkids, and an amazing mother to her three boys and two daughter-in-laws. Not to mention a second mom to many.

Paula never knew a stranger, and was there for anyone and everyone. She made anyone who knew her feel like a friend.

She was a fantastic beautician, but she was more than that–she cared for her clients deeply. She was the co-owner of Her’s & His Hair in New Haven for several years, and most recently worked at Shear Connection Salon in New Haven.

Paula is survived by her mother, Carroll Backes, of New Haven; her husband, Steve Tanner, of New Haven; three sons, Jonathan Bloch, of New Haven; Tyler Bloch & wife Sarah, of New Haven; and Austin Bloch & wife Tara, of Wentzville, Missouri; by three step-sons, Kevin, Aaron and Ethan Tanner, all of St. Peters, Missouri; by five grandchildren, Johnna, Jackson, Adalaine, Henry and Braxton; four sisters, Jackie Weidle & husband Larry, of New Haven; Sharon Althen & husband James, of New Haven; Kim Hoemann, of New Haven; Kelly Toelke & husband Robert, of New Haven; a brother, Scott Backes & wife Jackie, of Houston, Texas; and by many nieces, nephews and friends.

She is preceded in death by her father, Bud Backes and a brother-in-law, James Hoemann.

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1962
Born November 20
1969
Paula was 7 when the Woodstock music festival opened
1976
Paula was 14 when America celebrated its Bicentennial
1981
Paula was 19 when MTV began broadcasting
1982
Paula was 20 when Michael Jackson released "Thriller"
1994
Paula was 32 when "Friends" premiered
1997
Paula was 35 when "Titanic" opened in theaters
2001
Paula was 39 when Apple introduced the iPod
2022
Passed away April 5, age 59
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