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Portrait of Melody Anne Robens (Whalen)
In loving memory

Melody Anne Robens (Whalen)

November 19, 1975 – June 17, 2021
Lived 45 years
Ballston Spa Village Cemetery · Ballston Spa, NY
‘I’ll be seeing you.”
Life story

Melody Anne Robens (Whalen)—Mother, Daughter, Wife, Sister, Aunt and Friend —died by suicide on June 17, 2021.

As a child Melody was a force to be reckoned with and that did not change when she grew up as well. Once she had her mind set it was made and beware anyone who stepped in her way. Melody also had a gift of being your best friend in your misery, to make you laugh and find the humor in the darkness.

When asked Melody’s greatest accomplishments in life would be her two children Lyndsay and Kobe despite what mistakes she made. She loved them with all her heart.

Though estranged from her children and immediate family by her choosing They loved her and will miss her even more now in death because the future is now re-written. Melody bravely battled through their difficult private struggles, always with their support of their loving family. Though times weren’t always easy, she knew that they were loved and cared for by those closest to them and showed tremendous strength throughout it all.

As a young woman with both passion and an intense sense of understanding darkness, Melody was also subject to depression, which she battled for several years. She chose to end her life Just before the Summer really had begun. She is survived by her Children Lyndsay Whalen & Kobe Currier, Parents Susan & Robert Whalen, her younger brothers, Robert Whalen & Joshua Whalen.

If you or a loved one are struggling with mental health, reach out to The National Suicide Prevention Hotline. The first step towards is seeking help. Melody would not have wanted to see someone else having the same difficulties.

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Family milestones in gold, history for context

1975
Born November 19
1982
Melody was 7 when Michael Jackson released "Thriller"
1989
Melody was 14 when the Berlin Wall fell
1994
Melody was 19 when "Friends" premiered
1998
Melody was 23 when "Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone" was published in America
2001
Melody was 26 when Apple introduced the iPod
2021
Passed away June 17, age 45
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