““Every time you are able to find humor in difficult situations, you win every time.”
Life story
Louis Orlando Soltren, also known as “Peabody,” age 67, passed away in his sleep while in the company of his daughter Ayla and son-in-law Ben on April 11, 2024, in Saint Paul MN after a lengthy battle with Early Onset Alzheimer’s Disease. He was born in Bronx, NY on January 3rd, 1957, to his parents Rafael Soltren who passed away in September of 1998 and his beautiful mother Agrippina Sanchez who recently passed on April 12, 2024. He is survived by his sons; Louis Soltren, Alberto Torres, and Matthew Soltren, his daughters Ayla Litsenberger and Kiana Soltren, his daughter-in-law Elizabeth Rodriguez, his son-in-law Ben Litsenberger, his future daughter-in-law Leah Kelley, along with his bonus children Ariel and Sade Uffre. He is survived by his sister Miriam Soltren and brothers Willy Soltren, Rafael Soltren, Neco Soltren, and Raymond Soltren. He is also survived by his wife from whom he was legally separated, Wendy Uffre. He will be remembered forever and loved always by his 15 grandchildren, nieces, nephews, cousins, other relatives, and closest friends.
He had a successful career in the construction industry for over 23 years and last worked as a supervising foreman for Flintlock Construction Services before his retirement in 2009. After being legally separated from his wife in 2013 he often traveled to see family members in different states. In 2016, he moved to live with his daughter Ayla in MD, VA, FL, and finally Cottage Grove, MN until late October of 2022 when he entered into Memory Care in Cottage Grove, MN and Saint Paul, MN. Despite his cognitive decline he always remembered to make his weekly calls on Sundays (with Ayla’s assistance) to family members whom he treasured. He was a favored resident by staff while in memory care due to his humor, laughter, and kindness.
He received Jesus as his Lord and Savior in 2013 and was baptized in 2019 at Bay Chapel in Tampa, FL. He was a devout believer, as his heart for Christ was consistently demonstrated in his daily interactions with others, through his post on Facebook, and his weekly commitment to church attendance. Despite his struggles with this disease his faith never wavered, instead it was a significant source of continuous comfort and peace. He once said, “My Bible is my passport and Jesus is the pilot, destination…heaven.”
Louis identified as a comedian ever since he was a kid. His sense of humor remained an intricate part of his character and reflected what he loved to do most for others – make them laugh. He once said, “Every time you are able to find humor in difficult situations, you win every time.” And when his kids tried to get him to stop smoking, he would say, “I’m not a quitter” and laugh his awesome laugh. He had a beautiful heart that did not hide his love for others. He was an incredible father, grandfather, uncle, brother, and son who loved the New York Yankees, listening to Soft Rock, and most importantly being with his family.
If he could offer encouragement today he would say what he has said in the past which is: “Everything will work out in the end, and you don’t need to know how, you just need to trust in God and believe that it will. Amen.” And “Your peace is more important than driving yourself crazy trying to understand why things happened the way it did. Just let it go.”
Walking the Alzheimer's journey with you was the hardest thing I ever had to do. But I want you to know Dad, that I would do it over and over and over again. I am so thankful, that I got to take care of you despite the times it felt overwhelming, you were worth it. EVERY moment with you was worth it. Thank you for being an incredible father to me and grandfather to Alaysia, Jemari, and Eilana. And Father-in-law to Ben. I'm so glad you loved Ben. Thank you for all the times you made me laugh, especially the times when you knew I was sad. For the chocolate milk. For the scares. For your kisses and big hugs. For always making me feel respected and worthy of being heard even as a child. I have to learn now, how to live without you. And I don't want to, and I don't like it. But I am so thankful to God that you got to know Jesus. That you got to experience the freedom that exist in Christ. That you got to heal in Christ. That you shared the joy of Christ with others. I am thankful I got to see it. I weep now, not because I am mad at God but because I painfully miss you. But keeping you here would have been so selfish. I am happy you are free now. I am happy you are happy. Life will never be the same, but know that because of you, I have beautiful memories to keep alive in my heart and the joy of knowing I get to see you again in time. Please kiss Grandma, Grandpa, & Emmy for me. I love you so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo so soooooooooooooooooooooooo so sooooooooooooooooooooo so much! Times infinity!
Te Queiro Mucho Para Siempre,
Your Daughter
Ayla