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Portrait of Alyssa Monique Ontiveros
On my silent days, I miss you a little louder.

Alyssa Monique Ontiveros

May 31, 1996 – September 17, 2022
Lived 26 years
Holy Sepulchre Cemetery · Hayward, CA
Goodbyes are only for those who love with their eyes because for those who love with their heart and soul there is no such thing as separation ~ Rumi
Life story

Alyssa was born in Castro Valley, California at Eden Hospital, on May 31, 1996. She weighed 6lbs. 3oz. she was the the baby of the family and the only girl. Alyssa is survived by her three brothers Ronnie, Eric (Buba), Albert (Purdy), her parents are Eric Ontiveros and Chantel Candelario, and many cousins, aunts, uncles, nephews, and a niece. Alyssa loved her family like no other and there's nothing she wouldn't do for them. She had a sassy, joyful, bubbly personality and was a true empathic soul at heart. She cared deeply about those she loved and was a loyal friend. She loved music, art and animals, and she adored being an aunt.

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1996
Born May 31
1998
Alyssa was 2 when "Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone" was published in America
2001
Alyssa was 5 when Apple introduced the iPod
2007
Alyssa was 11 when the first iPhone went on sale
2015
2015 High School Livermore High
2016
Alyssa was 20 when Pokemon Go sent millions outdoors hunting creatures
2017
Alyssa was 21 when "Fortnite" became a video game phenomenon
2022
Passed away September 17, age 26
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Alyssa and Lilly

Alyssa truly loved animals especially her dog Lilly. Well Lilly was her moms dog, but Alyssa took over and smothered Lilly with love and treating her Like a child instead of a dog. Alyssa loved Lilly unconditionally just as she did everyone she crossed paths with. I Love and miss you terribly Peanut (Alyssa), Love Mom

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