“"There is nothing that can replace the absence of someone dear to us, and one should not even attempt to do so. One must simply hold out and endure it. At first that sounds very hard, but at the same time it is also a great comfort. For to the extent the emptiness truly remains unfilled one remains connected to the other person through it. It is wrong to say that God fills the emptiness. God in no way fills it but much more leaves it precisely unfilled and thus helps us preserve—even in pain—the authentic relationship. Furthermore, the more beautiful and full the remembrances, the more difficult the separation. But gratitude transforms the torment of memory into silent joy. One bears what was lovely in the past not as a thorn but as a precious gift deep within, a hidden treasure of which one can always be certain." - Dietrich Bonhoeffer Works, Vol. 8, Letters and Papers from Prison
Life story
Leslie Marie (Uphoff) Stevens was born on February 13, 1957 in Braddock, PA. She grew up in North Huntingdon with her parents, Theodore and Frances Uphoff and attended Norwin High School, where she graduated in 1975. While in high school, Leslie was a majorette and participated in the Future Business Leaders of America. Leslie met her husband, John, through a mutual friend working at EquiBank. They married on June 21, 1980 and started their life in Murrysville, PA. Leslie earned her Bachelors in Liberal Arts from Seton Hill University in 2010. While at Seton Hill, Leslie cherished her time on “The Hill” and became very close with many students, professors, administrators, and some of the Sisters of Charity.
Leslie passed away Saturday, December 30, 2017, from complications due to multiple sclerosis. Leslie was predeceased by her father-in-law, John N. Stevens Sr. She is survived by her husband of 37 years, John; as well as her children, Kimberly Feigel (Matthew) and Michael (Katie); seven grandchildren, Jacob, Madeline, Ava, and Olivia Feigel, and Colby, Gary, and Josephine Stevens; parents, Theodore and Frances Uphoff; sisters-in-law, Sally Gardner (Dave), Tina Karl (Dave), and Alicia Baranik (Jim); and brother-in-law, Allen Stevens (Sue). Leslie drew much courage and spirit from the many prayers and acts of kindness offered to her daily by her wonderfully supportive family and friends.
So sad to learn of Leslie's passing in the Seton Hill alumni magazine. I remember having classes with her and sharing many lovely conversations with her throughout our semesters together. She was always a friendly face to see and was a wonderful woman to know! Sending out prayers for the repose of her beautiful soul. May God continue to comfort the family and loved ones who miss her so dearly. Eternal rest grant unto her O Lord. And let the perpetual light shine upon her. And may the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen. July 18, 2018
John, Kimberly, and Michael, Our deepest sympathy to you ; we are very sorry for your loss. Leslie always had a cheery smile on her face; she was so gracious and poised ! May she rest in peace. January 8, 2018
As one of the Mothers from our little Catholic elementary school, Mother of Sorrows, Leslie was always willing to help the school in any way possible. She was always kind, graceful, and one of the sweetest people I have ever known. Prayers offered for her family now, and for a peace beyond all understanding. We KNOW we will see her again. May she Rest In Peace. January 3, 2018
God bless you in your loss. It is a loss to humanity as Leslie was such a positive influence. Our family still has the communion banners the kids made with Leslie out of the felt cut outs at St. Mary's Church. God grant you continued strength and Leslie everlasting peace. January 3, 2018
My sympathy to her family. Growing up across the street from her from 1st grade to high school on Richard Rd, I'll always have great memories of a super person. January 2, 2018
I was a class mate of Leslie. When I knew Leslie back in school, she was the most kindest, sweetest person anyone could ever know...always a smile on her face, never a harsh word about anyone. I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers. January 2, 2018
Colby says "Hi" to Leslie
Jacob and Maddy's 60th Birthday Message to Leslie
Kate Cala's 60th Birthday Message to Leslie
Pat McRickard's 60th Birthday Message to Leslie
Mike and Katie's 60th Birthday Message to Leslie
Leslie's Funeral Video
