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Clay Ryan Holbrook

May 21, 1977 – January 30, 2023
Lived 45 years
Bountiful, Utah
Son - Brother - Husband - Father - Uncle - Grandpa - Best Friend - Coach
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Clay Ryan Holbrook

May 21, 1977 — January 30, 2023

Farmington

Clay Ryan Holbrook was born on May 21, 1977, the oldest of three boys born to Kirk and Shelley Holbrook in Bountiful, Utah. His passing on January 30, 2023, has left an enormous void in our hearts.

Clay Holbrook has been a soccer enthusiast his entire life. At four years old, he began playing recreational league soccer and graduated to competitive play by the age of eight. Clay played for Woods Cross High School, winning the State Cup title his senior year. That same year his competition team went on to win second place in the Nation for his age group. Needless to say, Clay Holbrook is soccer.

Clay has three children—Abby, Hank, and Jed—who have all played soccer throughout their lives. Clay coached all three throughout their formative years, teaching them to play their best no matter which sport they were engaged in.

As his three children grew and progressed, other parents noticed that Clay had a unique ability to teach his children valuable life skills along with specific soccer skills, and they petitioned him to share his abilities. As more and more parents enthusiastically encouraged Clay to coach their children, he decided to sign up for coaching certification classes, making it official for him to coach according to the established structure of the Utah Youth Soccer Association League. After becoming certified, Clay not only helped coach his own kids’ teams but took on several additional teams. His coaching approach created a winning environment for kids to grow and progress and learn life and soccer skills along the way.

Clay had a regular full-time job at HF Sinclair, where he had been employed since 1995. He began his career at the Woods Cross Refinery, where he worked as a yard laborer, moving through several positions within operations, including Operations Training Supervisor, and finally as a Fired Heater Specialist for the corporate Mechanical Integrity group. Clay loved his Work family and spoke highly of the many cherished relationships he acquired over his 28 years working among them. Clay loved his full-time job almost as much as his real passion in life, which was coaching the kids he’d come to love on the soccer field. Driver by his love of the game and his big heart, Clay spent a significant share of his off-work time coaching and improving lives. Clay wasn’t a screamer or abusive in any way, but calmly and methodically taught and instructed those having the opportunity to work with him. He did what only Clay Holbrook could do: teach the game of soccer with grace and goodness.

Clay coached teams for La Roca, Forza, and finally helped with the formation and coaching of Metasport. Over the last few years, with encouragement from Andrea and his love of the boys he’d coached for years, he assisted with coaching the boys at Farmington High School, GO PHOENIX!

Clay is survived by his dear wife of 25 years, Andrea; daughter, Abby Hunter (Kody); sons, Hank Holbrook and Jed Holbrook; Granddaughter, Quinn Hunter; Grandson, Hudson Hunter; parents, Kirk & Shelley Holbrook; brothers, Flint & Tiffanee Holbrook, Andrew & Kami Holbrook; In-Laws, Dave & Julie White, Jason & Rachel White, Kent & Nichole Lewis, Michael & Kortney White, and numerous nephews and nieces.

And finally, he is survived by a multitude of people for whom Clay was “the best coach/friend ever.” That includes practically everyone he has ever met. Clay knew no strangers. He considered every person he came in contact with—whether on a conference call, soccer field, or walking on the street—as important, interesting, and worthy of his friendship and attention. And the driving force and theme of his life was love and service to others

Clay Holbrook, you will be missed!

Funeral services will be held at 1:00 pm, Monday, February 6, 2023 at the Farmington Bay Stake Center, 549 S. 1525 W. , Farmington. A viewing will be held Sunday evening from 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. at Russon Mortuary & Crematory, 1941 North Main Street, Farmington, and again Monday morning 11:30-12:30 am at the church prior to services. Interment- Bountiful City Cemetery.

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Family milestones in gold, history for context

1977
Born May 21
1989
Clay was 12 when the Berlin Wall fell
1994
Clay was 17 when "Friends" premiered
1995
Clay was 18 when "Toy Story" became the first fully computer-animated film
2001
Clay was 24 when Apple introduced the iPod
2005
Clay was 28 when the first video was posted to YouTube
2023
Passed away January 30, age 45
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Tiffanee Holbrook 150w

For Clay

Growing up I always thought it would have been so cool to have an older brother. The kind that gave you a hard time but still made you feel like if anyone messed with you, they’d have your back. When I married Flint and you became my ‘brother’ I feel like I had that. At first, you intimidated me. And then as I got to know you better I saw that you are really just a big teddy bear. A giant man with an even bigger heart. I think it’s your hugs that I miss the most. Or maybe the way that you could always make us all laugh. I don’t know if there’s anyone that can tell a funny story quite like you, with all the exaggerations. Whenever you were around things were just a little bit more fun. You also had this unique ability to make everyone around you feel like they were important. I wish I’d told you all these things when you were here. I hope you are somehow getting to see the impact you made on the people around you, because it’s huge! Just like your giant heart. I feel so lucky to have had you as my big brother. I love you. ❤️

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Flint Holbrook 156w

A letter to my brother..

Clay, It's hard to put into words how much I miss you. Every day, I feel your absence like a heavy weight on my heart. I cry randomly a lot. I know you would say "Jesus, quit crying all the time, god damn!". I try not to do it in front of anyone. I want our family and friends to find strength from how I handle this, just like I know you would have done. I find myself thinking about the times we shared, the endless laughter, the fights, and all the moments that made us who we are. I really miss it all and can't hold the tears back sometimes. You weren't just my brother, you were my idol, my partner in crime, and my best friend. You taught me so much about life, about love, and about what it means to be there for someone. Your kindness, your strength, and your unwavering support shaped me in ways I can never truly express. I remember our adventures, our half-drunk talks, and the dreams we had for the future. You always had a way of making even the toughest situations seem manageable. Your courage inspired me, and your wisdom guided me. The world feels a lot colder without your presence, but I will hold on to the memories we made together. I fear that I'll forget them sometimes and it scares me. I try to find some form of solace in knowing that you could possibly be watching over me, guiding me through life's challenges, just as you always did, but I don't know. I wish that I could know. I wish that I could know that you are okay. We all just need to know that you are okay somehow. I know that you are worried about us too and you most likely had no idea this was coming. It must have been so terrifying for you to go through. I'm so sorry that I wasn't there when you passed. I feel like I let you down. A part of me feels like I could have prevented it somehow. I know that my biggest fear is leaving this world with no one to protect and provide for my family. I'm sure that you felt the same. Rest easy, my brother. I will do the best I can to take some of that responsibility from now on, just as I know you would for me. You did an amazing job and because of that, your family will be taken care of. I promise to keep your memory alive, to honor the person you were, and to carry forward the lessons you taught me. I will strive to live a life that would make you proud. I hope you will always be proud of me. Though you may not be here in person, your spirit lives on in the hearts of those who loved you. I feel your presence in the wind, in the warmth of the sun, in the rivers while fishing, on the golf course, and in the quiet moments of reflection. I love you and I miss you more than words can express. Until we can hopefully meet again someday, sending you all my love. Your brother, Phlint Phlillip Holbrook.

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Abby HunterI love you Flint. ❤️ Thank you for setting up this QR. It’s amazing.
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