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Gary Lee Sisk

Gary Lee Sisk

June 28, 1952 – March 12, 2021
Lived 68 years
Janesville, Wisconsin
Miss them as much as you want, for as long as you want. Get up make productive decisions, cry if you want but move forward with your life knowing that you will see them again soon in heaven. As the days pass the hurt will hurt less. Forget closure it doesn’t work. Pastor Gary
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Life story

Gary Lee Sisk was born on a summers day, June 28, 1952 in Elkhorn, Wisconsin to Frederick ‘Gene’ E & Shirley J (Beardsley) Sisk and went to be with his Lord and Savior on March 12, 2021 at Mercy Hospital in Janesville, Wisconsin. Or, as Gary would say, in his book “The Misadventures of Buck Tanglewood”---

“he was born under a covered wagon near the banks of Tanglewood Creek while traveling to the west with my family.” So began the adventure of a lifetime.

Along the way, Gary married his wife Michele ‘Shelli’ McKay on June 2, 1977 whose mercy towards him continued to make life an amazing journey. Gary and Shelli have been the pastors of Harvestpoint Church in Delavan, Wisconsin since 1989. Both are graduates of Rhema Bible Training College in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. Gary also earned a Master’s Degree in Counseling/Family Systems Therapy from the University of Wisconsin-Whitewater.

Gary believed that adults are just older kids. He didn’t keep his crayons inside all of the lines (if you know what that means). When Gary colored pictures with his grandkids, the house rule was “all individuals, including Gary” must remove all crayons from all nostrils after playing ‘walrus’, and especially before answering the doorbell.

To say that Gary’s sense of humor was dry was like “if towels could tell jokes”. Of course, his observations had to be said with a straight face showing minimal expression, but with a twinkle in his eye.

Gary’s interests and talents had no bounds. He was a builder, a writer, a musician, preacher, an artist, mechanic, inventor, veteran (army), husband, father, son, sibling, uncle, friend and most importantly. . . Papa to his grandchildren. He played trumpet, had the leads in more than one high school musical, was class President (Delavan-Darien Class of 1970) and he was a hunter.

This cherished tradition to go hunting with his father, brother and friends, and later son led to more than one adventure. As brother Larry writes:

We deer hunted in my family when I was growing up. It was a rite of passage of sorts when you finally reached the age of 12 and you were allowed to go with the men "up north". One car that was used to drive “up north” was a 1960 Cadillac Sedan deVille. That thing must have been 18 feet long. My brother Gary had a tendency to wander off from the "stand" my dad would put him on. He got bored easily I guess and would leave where my dad put him to go try out a different area or just to "still hunt" - that is taking a few steps and stopping, taking a few steps and stopping. . . you get the drift. When we (Gary) would get lost there was a signal. . . three blasts of the horn from the old Caddy. This would continue until the missing party would come out of the woods. My dad would never give up until we were all safely returned to the car.

Gary, we tried to keep you here with us, but you must have been hearing those horns honking all the way from heaven. You once wrote about your friend and mentor Johnnie Visgar, “I know you slipped off to heaven ahead of me. I’ll catch up with you later. I will miss the nearly four decades of walking the trails of “Tanglewood” with you scouting for the biggest buck. Say “hi” to my dad”. . . Well Gary you walked into heaven with all the “horns honking” and were greeted by dad, Johnny, Carrie and all the saints that went before you. . you are safe, but will be forever missed and loved here on earth. . .

Gary is survived by his wife Michele ‘Shelli’, son, Levi (Melissa) Sisk, daughter, Emily (Alex) Valadez, Son-in-law Joel Schuknecht, mother, Shirley J Sisk, Brother, Larry (Cheryl) Sisk, sisters, Sharyn (Dave) Sheen, and Sandy (Bill) Rima. He is also survived by his grandchildren, Zak, Cheyenne, Violet, Xander, Zoe, Devontae, Alex and Carrie. Gary was preceded in death by his father Frederick ‘Gene’ Sisk, and his beloved daughter Carrie Anne Schuknecht.

And as Buck rode off into the sunset, he could see heaven’s door, “it looks a lot like Tanglewood", Buck said. . . I’ll catch up with you later. .

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1952
Born June 28
1958
Gary was 6 when the Hula Hoop craze swept the country
1963
Gary was 11 when Martin Luther King Jr. gave his "I Have a Dream" speech
1976
Gary was 24 when America celebrated its Bicentennial
1981
Gary was 29 when MTV began broadcasting
1991
Gary was 39 when the Soviet Union dissolved
2005
Gary was 53 when the first video was posted to YouTube
2017
Gary was 65 when "Fortnite" became a video game phenomenon
2020
Gary was 68 when SpaceX launched astronauts into orbit for the first time
2021
Passed away March 12, age 68
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