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Raymond Wayne Dery

June 20, 1954 – August 23, 2023
Lived 69 years
East Cemetery · Litchfield, CT
Anyone: How are you Ray? Ray: Oh, just Wunderbar.
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Raymond W. Dery, 69, of Bristol, husband of Sharon (Markie) Dery, passed away Wednesday, August 23, 2023, at home. He was born June 11, 1954, in Waterbury, son of the late Arthur and Virginia (Boucher) Dery.

Ray proudly served in the US Navy during the Vietnam War. He grew up in Thomaston and settled in Terryville with Sharon to raise their family. Ray was a skilled laborer, helping his father paint in his younger years, and then taking great pride in the buildings he helped to sandblast. He was well known for being the life of the party and always had a good joke to crack. He liked to fish, spend time with his friends and family and was an avid NY Giants and NY Yankees fan.

Besides his wife of over 35 years, Ray is survived by his daughter Jolene Abbate and her husband Cody of Wolcott; his step-son Paul Grandbois and his wife Kristen of Terryville; his sisters, AnnMarie Synott and her husband Joseph of Thomaston, and Nancy Ouellette and her husband Lenny of Maine; his sisters-in-law Nancy Dery of Morris and Janet Healy of Pennsylvania; his grandsons, Macquire and Matthew Barber, his grand-dogs Grim and Tank, several nieces and nephews and his lifelong friend Bobby McNamee. Ray was predeceased by his parents, his daughter Amanda Dery, and his brothers Arthur Dery, Jr., and David Dery.

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1954
Born June 20
1958
Raymond was 4 when the Hula Hoop craze swept the country
1969
Raymond was 15 when Apollo 11 landed on the Moon
1971
Raymond was 17 when Walt Disney World opened in Florida
1982
Raymond was 28 when Michael Jackson released "Thriller"
1998
Raymond was 44 when "Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone" was published in America
2004
Raymond was 50 when Facebook was launched
2016
Raymond was 62 when Pokemon Go sent millions outdoors hunting creatures
2022
Raymond was 68 when ChatGPT was released to the public
2023
Passed away August 23, age 69
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The Dery name at East Cemetery

Amanda Lynn Dery1987 – 2019
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