Ralph Allen Aberle

Ralph married his high school sweetheart, Mary Ann (Duchsherer) on June 11, 1966. Together, they moved to Minot in 1971 where they raised their 4 children, Shelley, Dean, Todd and Stephanie, in the home he helped to build.

Ralph worked at Feist Construction for 5 years before starting his 38 ½ year career working for the North Dakota Department of Transportation. Through his employment with the state, Ralph received many awards and recognitions. Alongside his full-time job, he kept himself busy with various side projects including construction, concrete work, plant deliveries, and snow removal.

After his retirement in 2016, Ralph enjoyed his days as a proud full-time grandpa. Giving rides and driving lessons, attending practices and sporting events, trailering horses and watching rodeos, school programs, playing games, telling stories, hunting and fishing; if his kids or grandkids were involved, he was too. Ralph enjoyed spending time out on the ranch helping with anything he could and sitting to enjoy the scenery and wildlife. He could often be found tinkering, rolling silverware, and tending his garden.

Ralph wore many hats, literally and figuratively, and was always willing to help. He was a jack of all trades; whether lending a hand or an ear, he provided comfort and solution which earned him the #1 spot on everyone’s speed dial. His gentle touch made him the grandkids’ favorite choice for helping to get loose teeth out with “just a little flick”. Ralph was not only generous in giving of his time, but also donated blood regularly; he received his 9-gallon pin in 2020.

Ralph was a man of few words, but as he led by example, his wisdom spoke volumes. His strong and unwavering faith demonstrated his love and close relationship he had with Jesus.